Part Weston
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To start off, I have been lurking here on and off for a couple of months. I have read bits of the bible and I have been trying to improve myself first. I am working out some and I am trying to display a positive image. I have many freinds that are girls and have had (failed relationships, ahhh my extremely afc days) with a few of them. I am comfortable with the fact that they are my friends and I have no plans to pursue a relationship with them. That said, I do want to meet some new girls and possibly go into a relationship. I am looking for more of a long term relationship here, not to get into their pants right away. That can wait awhile.
Okay, at the beginning of this schoolyear, while I was still an afc with pretty low confidence, I saw the freshman (I'm a sophomore) that I thoght was pretty. I pointed her out to a friend one day at lunch, as I have no classes with her, and he said he knew one of her guy friends. One day, my friend and I went over the the gril's lunch table, said hi to her guy friend and then proceeded to make introductions around the table. I was pretty quiet and I would guess I looked rather nervous. Blah blah, small talk follows and I do not really talk to my target or any of her friends. Even worse, I found out a few days later that her guy friend told her I like her and that she was not interested, basing it soley off my looks. I did not take it hard at the time, and just shrugged it off.
Anyway, I noticed one of this girls friends was rather pretty. I was working up courage to go up to her and say hi, but I found out she was the sister of one of my (girl) friends. That and the fact I didn't come off to well at the lunch table smashed any courage I had. I could have sworn this new girl made some eye contact in the halls with me more than once, but I did not pursue that.
Fast forward to the present. I no longer have a class with this girl's sister, and I never talked to her before outside that class, so I do not feel that would present a problem. Because of schedule changes at the semester, I see this girl (sister one) a bit more around the halls at school. Here is where I am wondering how exactly I should approach this. I have been introduced to her once, but I said no more than a quick hi. This was also many months ago. I have no clue if her sister has said anything about me to her, and quite frankly I could really care less. The thing is, do I say hi to her like I know her and like I would to any other girl I know, or do I go about introducing myself, blah and so forth? Also, she tends to travel in a pack and I rarely ever see her alone, but it does happen on occasion.
Also, she is not the only one I have my eye on. I figure at the very least she has some nice friends and the knowing her would open that pool up. I also know other girls who I could see having a relationship with, so I would say I do not have a case of one-itis. I had that once and I saw the stupidity in it.
Anyway, fire away guys. Give me criticism, advice, or whatever, I am all ears.
Okay, at the beginning of this schoolyear, while I was still an afc with pretty low confidence, I saw the freshman (I'm a sophomore) that I thoght was pretty. I pointed her out to a friend one day at lunch, as I have no classes with her, and he said he knew one of her guy friends. One day, my friend and I went over the the gril's lunch table, said hi to her guy friend and then proceeded to make introductions around the table. I was pretty quiet and I would guess I looked rather nervous. Blah blah, small talk follows and I do not really talk to my target or any of her friends. Even worse, I found out a few days later that her guy friend told her I like her and that she was not interested, basing it soley off my looks. I did not take it hard at the time, and just shrugged it off.
Anyway, I noticed one of this girls friends was rather pretty. I was working up courage to go up to her and say hi, but I found out she was the sister of one of my (girl) friends. That and the fact I didn't come off to well at the lunch table smashed any courage I had. I could have sworn this new girl made some eye contact in the halls with me more than once, but I did not pursue that.
Fast forward to the present. I no longer have a class with this girl's sister, and I never talked to her before outside that class, so I do not feel that would present a problem. Because of schedule changes at the semester, I see this girl (sister one) a bit more around the halls at school. Here is where I am wondering how exactly I should approach this. I have been introduced to her once, but I said no more than a quick hi. This was also many months ago. I have no clue if her sister has said anything about me to her, and quite frankly I could really care less. The thing is, do I say hi to her like I know her and like I would to any other girl I know, or do I go about introducing myself, blah and so forth? Also, she tends to travel in a pack and I rarely ever see her alone, but it does happen on occasion.
Also, she is not the only one I have my eye on. I figure at the very least she has some nice friends and the knowing her would open that pool up. I also know other girls who I could see having a relationship with, so I would say I do not have a case of one-itis. I had that once and I saw the stupidity in it.
Anyway, fire away guys. Give me criticism, advice, or whatever, I am all ears.