"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hi everyone, I hope some one could help me out with this girl problem.
Well first of all i know her for about 3 years we are good friends, but not good enough that we act like complete goofballs around eachother. Maybe its the Sexual tension? I dunno, and about a year ago i told her i liked her and she turned me down because she was going out with some one else. Now her boyfriend lives about 6 ( or more) hours away by an airplane.
Me and her been spending a lot of time together lately due to the fact we play/train tennis together. And all she dose is give me different signals...Like she jokes about coming on to me, than starts talking about how she misses her BF, i think i might be in the friendzone :(. just recently for the first time she used "kino" on me i dunno if girls do that? Well she never touched me like that before, i didnt see it coming...so I read some other help tips like how to get out of friendzone so now i am trying to avoid her and spend as less time as possible with eachother...see where it takes. Well thx for reading this and anyother help would be great :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just don't come across as using her BF's distance as a way to come onto her. I'll write more later.
Good luck.
 
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Find other girls, dont get so hung up on her. Read the Bible.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Interpol
First of all, that's a terrible attitude to have...Second of all, does anyone know what the hell that smiley is supposed to be?
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That means, I am rooting for you, or I am rooting for this option.

You have oneitis, but haven/ don't we all?
 
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Originally posted by wavejams007
You have oneitis, but haven/ don't we all? [/B]
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No, we don't.
 
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Notice how I included a past tense in what I wrote. I find it highly doubt ful that the majority if guys here or anywhere else have not had some form of onitis.
 
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