"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

Ned Help BIG time

FriendlyFriend

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 13, 2005
Messages
11
Reaction score
0
Hi everyone, I hope some one could help me out with this girl problem.
Well first of all i know her for about 3 years we are good friends, but not good enough that we act like complete goofballs around eachother. Maybe its the Sexual tension? I dunno, and about a year ago i told her i liked her and she turned me down because she was going out with some one else. Now her boyfriend lives about 6 ( or more) hours away by an airplane.
Me and her been spending a lot of time together lately due to the fact we play/train tennis together. And all she dose is give me different signals...Like she jokes about coming on to me, than starts talking about how she misses her BF, i think i might be in the friendzone :(. just recently for the first time she used "kino" on me i dunno if girls do that? Well she never touched me like that before, i didnt see it coming...so I read some other help tips like how to get out of friendzone so now i am trying to avoid her and spend as less time as possible with eachother...see where it takes. Well thx for reading this and anyother help would be great :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

wavejams007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2004
Messages
876
Reaction score
3
Age
39
Location
jacksonville, FL
Just don't come across as using her BF's distance as a way to come onto her. I'll write more later.
Good luck.
 

JSH

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 20, 2003
Messages
1,088
Reaction score
0
Age
39
Location
London
Find other girls, dont get so hung up on her. Read the Bible.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

wavejams007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2004
Messages
876
Reaction score
3
Age
39
Location
jacksonville, FL
Originally posted by Interpol
First of all, that's a terrible attitude to have...Second of all, does anyone know what the hell that smiley is supposed to be?
That means, I am rooting for you, or I am rooting for this option.

You have oneitis, but haven/ don't we all?
 

Zaine

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 28, 2005
Messages
183
Reaction score
0
Location
VA
Originally posted by wavejams007
You have oneitis, but haven/ don't we all? [/B]
No, we don't.
 

wavejams007

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 9, 2004
Messages
876
Reaction score
3
Age
39
Location
jacksonville, FL
Notice how I included a past tense in what I wrote. I find it highly doubt ful that the majority if guys here or anywhere else have not had some form of onitis.
 
Top