"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Neck hair

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Anybody know a good way to control neck hair? I shave it every once in a while, but it's a hassle and hard to shave back there. Only people of certain heritages (I'm Irish) generally have this problem so I'd be interested to know how you handle it?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Ahh i feel you bro. Im Indian.. (as in India) so i am a hairy bastard.. and its weird cause this issue has always bothered me as well.

Whenever i get a haircut the girl would always shave it.. but it grows back fairly quickly and since i have black hair, it looks terrible. I tried doing it myslelf once, and gave myself the worst razor burn of my life!

If anyone can give us some insight on this one, please do!!;)
 

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I'm Finnish and also very hairy (except for my chest.. can't get no damn hair there!!! :D). As for neck hair, I have no problems shaving it! I put some shaving foam or gel back there, adjust two mirrors to get a good look and grab my gilette! I have never hurt myself while shaving my neck.. No problems with a machine either! Not really helpful, eh? :) But this is how I do it! The only actual advice I can offer is get two mirrors, if you don't have been doing that yet! Without two it's impossible to see what you're shaving!
 

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I shave my neck with an eletric razor (also has a trimming thingy for detailing) every 4 days. I grab a mirror in one hand to look at the reflection of my neck on the bathroom mirror, and I start shaving carefully. Even though I get razor burn, I just load on the moisturizing lotion, and deal with it. After a day, it's all good.
 

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Originally posted by Classic
I shave my neck with an eletric razor (also has a trimming thingy for detailing) every 4 days. I grab a mirror in one hand to look at the reflection of my neck on the bathroom mirror, and I start shaving carefully. Even though I get razor burn, I just load on the moisturizing lotion, and deal with it. After a day, it's all good.
Yeah, i used an electric razor, and it gave me hella razor burn.. wow.. it hurt for about a week..

Felt like i had slid across the pavement on it :(
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

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Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hey Rashad

I usually go in a light, circular motion just a couple of times in each area. I also find that there's a sweet spot on the razor that doesn't cause as much burn. My trouble spots are on the side, which I can see in the mirror. So, when I get done, I take a look, and if I see any wild hairs anywhere, I shave them once with a regular razor. This is a lot better to do than just going over the area a million times to make sure you get it all. Sometimes, I get red marks, and that sucks.
 
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