"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Neck Fat

CanuckinSK

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In the last year I dropped a lot of weight. I'm 5'11" btw. Went from 240 down to my present 182. I've gone from a 38" waist to 32". I body build twice a week, walk at least 20 minutes/day, and I've cut junk food and red meat from my diet.

Here's the problem: I still have noticeable fat under my jawline. Are there exercises for this area? Or do I just need to drop another 5-10 lbs?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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there are several possibilities here:

simplest: you haven't lost enough bodyfat yet. 32" waist though suggests you're in range, but you may need to add quite a bit of muscle mass to get rid of the "skinny fat" look. the stickied links can help you get more out of your workouts

even more hopeful: you've cut out red meat -- I'm sure that seems like a good idea to you, but hopefully we can talk you out of it. your body needs some saturated fat to produce testosterone, which will help your face-shape, not to mention your lifting progress.

still more hopeful: adding wild alaskan salmon in particular & omega-3 sources in general may also help with your face-shape.

less hopeful: losing weight at your age may leave a droopy-dog look no matter what. if you're sure it's fat, no worries, but it may just be skin.....
 

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Throttle said:
there are several possibilities here:

simplest: you haven't lost enough bodyfat yet. 32" waist though suggests you're in range, but you may need to add quite a bit of muscle mass to get rid of the "skinny fat" look. the stickied links can help you get more out of your workouts

even more hopeful: you've cut out red meat -- I'm sure that seems like a good idea to you, but hopefully we can talk you out of it. your body needs some saturated fat to produce testosterone, which will help your face-shape, not to mention your lifting progress.

still more hopeful: adding wild alaskan salmon in particular & omega-3 sources in general may also help with your face-shape.

less hopeful: losing weight at your age may leave a droopy-dog look no matter what. if you're sure it's fat, no worries, but it may just be skin.....
Thanks for the suggestions. I may just need to lose a bit more weight. When I was 170, I didn't have this problem. I like the salmon idea. I never eat fish anymore. My bad.:eek:
 
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