"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Neck Fat

CanuckinSK

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In the last year I dropped a lot of weight. I'm 5'11" btw. Went from 240 down to my present 182. I've gone from a 38" waist to 32". I body build twice a week, walk at least 20 minutes/day, and I've cut junk food and red meat from my diet.

Here's the problem: I still have noticeable fat under my jawline. Are there exercises for this area? Or do I just need to drop another 5-10 lbs?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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there are several possibilities here:

simplest: you haven't lost enough bodyfat yet. 32" waist though suggests you're in range, but you may need to add quite a bit of muscle mass to get rid of the "skinny fat" look. the stickied links can help you get more out of your workouts

even more hopeful: you've cut out red meat -- I'm sure that seems like a good idea to you, but hopefully we can talk you out of it. your body needs some saturated fat to produce testosterone, which will help your face-shape, not to mention your lifting progress.

still more hopeful: adding wild alaskan salmon in particular & omega-3 sources in general may also help with your face-shape.

less hopeful: losing weight at your age may leave a droopy-dog look no matter what. if you're sure it's fat, no worries, but it may just be skin.....
 

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Throttle said:
there are several possibilities here:

simplest: you haven't lost enough bodyfat yet. 32" waist though suggests you're in range, but you may need to add quite a bit of muscle mass to get rid of the "skinny fat" look. the stickied links can help you get more out of your workouts

even more hopeful: you've cut out red meat -- I'm sure that seems like a good idea to you, but hopefully we can talk you out of it. your body needs some saturated fat to produce testosterone, which will help your face-shape, not to mention your lifting progress.

still more hopeful: adding wild alaskan salmon in particular & omega-3 sources in general may also help with your face-shape.

less hopeful: losing weight at your age may leave a droopy-dog look no matter what. if you're sure it's fat, no worries, but it may just be skin.....
Thanks for the suggestions. I may just need to lose a bit more weight. When I was 170, I didn't have this problem. I like the salmon idea. I never eat fish anymore. My bad.:eek:
 
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