"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Neck/back problems

I-am-someone

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Hey guys,

I've been having a lot of discomfort from my neck and my back, lately, with my neck in particular.
Whenever I sit somewhere, it just feels weak and it takes effort to keep my head in the upright position. This is constantly annoying my ass off and makes me feel like not doing too much, because it feels so darn heavy.

I think it may have something to do with the amount that I spend behind a computer or a screen each day - I think it amounts to about 85% of my time during the day, seeing as I do almost all my work as well as my hobbies behind my computer, and then watch TV during my breaks (that's kinda bad, isn't it? :p)

Lately, when I walk, it feels like my back is way out of alignment. I also noticed that my shoes are pretty old and the bottom is worn off in different amounts in every part of the shoe. I'm going to buy new shoes later on today, and see if that helps.


My question to you guys is; what can I do to fix the physical discomfort and for those who are recognizing these symptoms, what did you do to solve it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nex

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Basically, make a conscious effort to sit up straight every time you are on the PC. Regardless of how your neck feels.

When walking, make a conscious effort all the fvcking time to make sure you are up-right, chest out, shoulders relaxed.

Eventually it'll come naturally. NOW, if you've been like this for a long time then I'd recommend seeing a doctor as he might recommend you to physical therapy which will get your stance back to par.

One more thing: Get the hell off the computer. :D
 

usedtolurk

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First you gotta put yo' neck into it,
Don't stop it do it do it,
 

Climax

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yip

What Nex said;)

P.S.: Those massages really DO help, try it:D


Laterz...
 

I-am-someone

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Thanks for the tips guys :D
I think I know what the major problem is. I sit behind the computer too damn much. I don't really have a choice because if I don't, I quite simply don't make any money but I'm looking into ways to fix it.

What kind of therapy do you guys recommend? I've been to therapists before but I've never really gotten any improvement from it, strangely enough.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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