"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Neck/back problems

I-am-someone

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Hey guys,

I've been having a lot of discomfort from my neck and my back, lately, with my neck in particular.
Whenever I sit somewhere, it just feels weak and it takes effort to keep my head in the upright position. This is constantly annoying my ass off and makes me feel like not doing too much, because it feels so darn heavy.

I think it may have something to do with the amount that I spend behind a computer or a screen each day - I think it amounts to about 85% of my time during the day, seeing as I do almost all my work as well as my hobbies behind my computer, and then watch TV during my breaks (that's kinda bad, isn't it? :p)

Lately, when I walk, it feels like my back is way out of alignment. I also noticed that my shoes are pretty old and the bottom is worn off in different amounts in every part of the shoe. I'm going to buy new shoes later on today, and see if that helps.


My question to you guys is; what can I do to fix the physical discomfort and for those who are recognizing these symptoms, what did you do to solve it?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Nex

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Basically, make a conscious effort to sit up straight every time you are on the PC. Regardless of how your neck feels.

When walking, make a conscious effort all the fvcking time to make sure you are up-right, chest out, shoulders relaxed.

Eventually it'll come naturally. NOW, if you've been like this for a long time then I'd recommend seeing a doctor as he might recommend you to physical therapy which will get your stance back to par.

One more thing: Get the hell off the computer. :D
 

usedtolurk

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First you gotta put yo' neck into it,
Don't stop it do it do it,
 

Climax

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yip

What Nex said;)

P.S.: Those massages really DO help, try it:D


Laterz...
 

I-am-someone

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Thanks for the tips guys :D
I think I know what the major problem is. I sit behind the computer too damn much. I don't really have a choice because if I don't, I quite simply don't make any money but I'm looking into ways to fix it.

What kind of therapy do you guys recommend? I've been to therapists before but I've never really gotten any improvement from it, strangely enough.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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