“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Neal's virgin vent thread: waiting at bus stops.

NealIRC

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I'm from Chicago and posted an ad on Craigslist Chicago site. I know that if I included the word virgin, users are quick to flag my post for deletion, so.

This is what I posted. Chicago's public transportation is called CTA.

Title: Anyone ride the CTA bus full-time for over 10 years?

Ad: I been riding the CTA full-time since I was 18, so 17 years. And I would like to ask questions to other people that also ride it a lot.

Respond with how many years you been riding their buses and I'll send you my questions.

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So someone replied "30 years," and this is what I replied to them:


Ok 1st off I'm an incel, which means I'm a virgin, never been kissed by
a girl before. But I don't believe in using stupid convos to girls. So
here's some examples.

Every time I wait on a bus, and someone arrives, they'll tend to ask a
lowlife question like "how long have you been waiting here..." Men and
old/ugly women.

Or how about if you waited for a long time for a bus, by the time you
see a 2nd or 3rd bus in the opposite direction pass, someone is gonna
say "the 2nd or 3rd bus in the opposite direction just passed us."

So 1 time I arrived at a bus stop and saw a beautiful young female. I
didn't go "how long have you waited for the bus." And when the 3rd bus
in the opposite direction passed us, if she wasn't gonna say that, then
I wasn't gonna say to her "oh the 3rd bus in the opposite direction
passed us."

So my question is, has any beautiful woman ever done that to you? Ask
you how long you been waiting here, or, comment the buses in the
opposite direction passing? Cuz I only seen men and old/ugly women say
stuff like that...

----End of e-mail----

And the 1st person replied to me:

No, i don't think a beautiful woman has ever initiated a conversation with me at a bus stop. If one did, I'd assume she was a prostitute of some sort, or working with someone else to distract me.

----And then I replied----

Stuff like that should depend on what she said and how she's dressed.

You know, if what women are, were attributed to a race, I somehow suggest people would be racist against that race. That is, if there was a race of people out there that.

-Only talks to you if you talk to them 1st.
-And if you do talk to them, they only say the "minimum required."
-Never asks you for their #, never gives you their # without you asking them for it.
-Never asks you out on a date.

I somehow suspect every other race in the world would be so prejudiced against them, and have a hard time wanting to do business with them, have a hard time wanting to hire them, etc.

I have spent years of my life trying to find ways to get women to be the 1st to talk to me, including walking around shirtless.
 

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I wouldn’t say I was an Incel. Unless you
thought some girl had an incel fetish. TBH. I’ve never heard a girl mention Incelx ond way or another.
 

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What's the point of this thread?

Lord, give me patience.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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Standing at the bus stop...
Sucking on a lollipop...
Once she gets pumpin', it's hard to make the hottie stop...
She likes to dance to the rap jam...
She's sweet as brown sugar with the candied yams...
Honey coated complexion, using Camay...
Let's hear it for the girl, she's from around the way.
 

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What's the point of this thread?

Lord, give me patience.
All this mentality that certain men have like "if a beautiful woman initiated a convo with me, I'd assume she's a prostitute" is just more reasons for women to not do so.
 

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All this mentality that certain men have like "if a beautiful woman initiated a convo with me, I'd assume she's a prostitute" is just more reasons for women to not do so.
So what if she is?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What is being asked for does not come natural to women and there are many reasons for this.

When a cute girl initiates conversation with some random, clueless guy, the guy mistakingly assumes that's an invitation for making babies at some point. As a result, he makes her uncomfortable and learns to stop initiating conversation. By not initiating conversation, she can now weed out the clueless guys who can't take a hint. She knows the most socially skilled and confident men are the ones that initiate conversation first. So by not initiating it makes for a good filter to attract those types.

Women instinctively crave men that are emotionally and mentally strong. That's what gets them thru the struggles of life and makes them feel safe. The men that approach first are emotionally and mentally stronger than the guy who doesn't. Its the first test a guy passes on his way to seducing a female.

Those men who are emotionally and mentally strong also have more going on in their life. They chase dreams, take risks, are ambitious, rise to the occasion, and not afraid to change course. All of this turns a woman on mentally.

These are the types of men that deserve to be rewarded. These are the types that ensure societies survival.

It only makes sense that women are instinctively turned off by guys who are afraid to take a chance and go after what they want. It’s not good for the strength and survival of the human species for women to reward emotionally weak or insecure men with sex, love and devotion.

I've been around this world for almost 50yrs. I've seen the differences. You see it more on this forum than ever before. I've heard more complaints from women over the past 10yrs about how weak men are these days.

Don't wish is was easier, wish you were better and do something about it. Why are you so fearful?
 
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