"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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NCAA March Madness

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March Madness is beginning and I’d like to pick the brains of our resident NCAA basketball fans for my yearly pools.

Who’s going to make it to the final four and who’s going to win it all? Who are the Cinderellas and who might surprise?

Personally, I’m leaning towards U.C.L.A. to win it all but am open to suggestions.

Discuss.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I like Carolina, Kansas, Texas and Duke in the FF with Carolina beating Duke in the Finals.

I don't think Memphis has what it takes, they aren't battle hardened I guess. I think they go down in the second round against Mississippi State. Georgetown might take down Kansas, but I don't see it.
 

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speed dawg said:
I like Carolina, Kansas, Texas and Duke in the FF with Carolina beating Duke in the Finals.

I don't think Memphis has what it takes, they aren't battle hardened I guess. I think they go down in the second round against Mississippi State. Georgetown might take down Kansas, but I don't see it.

Thanks, speed dawg. I'm a little leary of Duke and will probably have them knocked out after a couple of rounds. Any sleepers you can think of?
 

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My sleepers are Georgia going to the Sweet 16, they are hot right now. Also Davidson, they were highly ranked all year but still get no respect. They have as good a shot to knock off Georgetown as anyone.
 

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speed dawg said:
My sleepers are Georgia going to the Sweet 16, they are hot right now. Also Davidson, they were highly ranked all year but still get no respect. They have as good a shot to knock off Georgetown as anyone.

Thanks, speed dawg. One of the pools I play is called Pick 8. You've got to pick 8 teams whose seed numbers add up to 32 or more. I finished in the money last year. Georgia at a 14 seed and Davidson at a 10 I should consider. If you had to play this pool what 8 teams would you pick?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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War Against Betaism

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I'm not that much into college basketball but I've watched UCLA a couple times this year and I'm just by default cheering for them. If the Bruins do make the finals I hope Kevin Love stays for another year or two, although he's a great player, his development will be hindered because he'll probably play off the bench a lot.
 

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That's an interesting pool. If it were mine, I'd probably go with:

North Carolina - 1
Kansas - 1
UCLA - 1
Duke - 2
Texas - 2
Tennessee - 2
Davidson - 10
Some random 13 seed who won't win it anyway.

That way, while you're throwing away 1 pick, you've upped your odds considerably with 6 out of the top 8 teams. Of the last 9 National Champions, 7 have been from the top 10, so that tells me usually the top rated teams are going to win it.
 

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speed dawg said:
That's an interesting pool. If it were mine, I'd probably go with:

North Carolina - 1
Kansas - 1
UCLA - 1
Duke - 2
Texas - 2
Tennessee - 2
Davidson - 10
Some random 13 seed who won't win it anyway.

That way, while you're throwing away 1 pick, you've upped your odds considerably with 6 out of the top 8 teams. Of the last 9 National Champions, 7 have been from the top 10, so that tells me usually the top rated teams are going to win it.

Good picks.......... I'm going to a play a card with your picks and I'm going to throw in Oral Roberts as a 13 seed. Maybe they'll have God on their side and they'll eke out a win or 2. Plus they're on the side with Memphis which you don't seem to have much faith in.
 

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I'm taking Duke to win it all this year. I'm not really that interested though since the selection committe **** on my Sun Devils. **** that over the back call in the Pac 10 tourney. The refs let them play rough all game and then call a ***** foul at the end. I hope Arizona goes out first round too!
 

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Memphis doesn't shoot free throws well enough to seal games. I think they will get to the Elite Eight and no further.

No Big Ten teams will make it past the Sweet Sixteen.

I think UNC wins it all, and Kansas actually does decent this year. There is no way the Jayhawks choke three years in a row.

When I fill out my bracket, I will come back to this thread.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MikeYikes122 said:
When I fill out my bracket, I will come back to this thread.

I'm looking forward to seeing your picks. Cheers!
 

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Ok, as far as a cinderella team, I'm gonna cast my vote for American University..My uncle and I sh!t our pants when we watched the Maryland-American game live and AU won it (december), they've got some quick guys. I hate how the selection committee left out the hokies (my school). For the NIT tourney, I would like to watch VT play ASU for the title. I'm gonna say that Pitt is gonna be a threat after dropping G-town for the Big East.
 
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Who ever comes out of the East bracket is going to be battle tested. North Carolina-if they make it the final four you have to give the nod to Roy.

I personally want KU to win.

Peace
 

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Duke got a big scare last night and look vulnerable. We'll see.
 
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romangod said:
Duke got a big scare last night and look vulnerable. We'll see.

Yes, they did. However, Duke has a weak inside game. Kinda like the Suns of last year.


Pittsburg is looking like the dark horse.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I told you about Davidson! Next round will be a little bit bigger test for them, although I think Georgetown is overrated.

Starting to wish I had picked UCLA to win it all. But oh well....
 

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speed dawg said:
I told you about Davidson! Next round will be a little bit bigger test for them, although I think Georgetown is overrated.

Starting to wish I had picked UCLA to win it all. But oh well....


Good call, speed dawg! I picked them on 2 of my cards and I'm still in the running. Cheers!
 

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and Duke just lost by 6.
 

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tj said:
Yes, they did. However, Duke has a weak inside game. Kinda like the Suns of last year.


Pittsburg is looking like the dark horse.


So much for Pitt. They are now a "no" horse. :crackup:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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