"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Natural Selection it is not, Female Selection Is more Like it
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Lol, okay you guys are STILL in the matrix. I think you should really come out....your theories are INCORRECT.
Let's go down the line very quickly, let's look at this.
tmpgstx says this,
"In terms of natural selection, it is about weeding out the weak so only the strong are left to carry on the gene pool.......Early on, the Males had to fight and compete for sex with the Female. Only the strongest (and often smartest) Male was able to mate and pro-create with the 'Alpha' Female......"
Okay, in one simple word NO. If you look up scientific studies and research into yester year, there was NEVER an age where a man FOUGHT over a woman, there WERE times when it was women that FOUGHT over men. If you look up history and research, there were times when men didn't care two shyts about women, and while women weren't treated like slaves was, women were indeed treated like pieces of crap. Men weren't so CAUGHT up over sex back then as they are today...which as I stated in a previous post, the AFC is a idiot becasue he's so CAUGHT UP over having sex with the chick and has NO CLUE on how to attain it. So again NO tmpgstx, look up in history....there was NEVER A TIME WHERE males fought over women.....hell women have just recently actually gotten to a place of power and value in this country! Women used to be housewives that could barely come out of the house........they had to fight between each other to obtain a MAN, because it was the MAN that provided for her azz, SINCE SHE COULDN'T DO IT HERSELF!
So again my friend.....please come out of the Matrix, pick up a book and R.E.A.D.
Let's go down the line very quickly, let's look at this.
tmpgstx says this,
"In terms of natural selection, it is about weeding out the weak so only the strong are left to carry on the gene pool.......Early on, the Males had to fight and compete for sex with the Female. Only the strongest (and often smartest) Male was able to mate and pro-create with the 'Alpha' Female......"
Okay, in one simple word NO. If you look up scientific studies and research into yester year, there was NEVER an age where a man FOUGHT over a woman, there WERE times when it was women that FOUGHT over men. If you look up history and research, there were times when men didn't care two shyts about women, and while women weren't treated like slaves was, women were indeed treated like pieces of crap. Men weren't so CAUGHT up over sex back then as they are today...which as I stated in a previous post, the AFC is a idiot becasue he's so CAUGHT UP over having sex with the chick and has NO CLUE on how to attain it. So again NO tmpgstx, look up in history....there was NEVER A TIME WHERE males fought over women.....hell women have just recently actually gotten to a place of power and value in this country! Women used to be housewives that could barely come out of the house........they had to fight between each other to obtain a MAN, because it was the MAN that provided for her azz, SINCE SHE COULDN'T DO IT HERSELF!
So again my friend.....please come out of the Matrix, pick up a book and R.E.A.D.
tmpgstx continues with,
"The woman has much greater investement in who she chooses, therefore her selection should be much more weighted with special criteria in meeting these conditions. It is her sexual strategy to retain a guy for child-rearing. A guy's strategy is to blow as many a load into as many gals as possible. Very different strategies. One is long-term and one is short-term."
Again, COME OUT OF THE MATRIX. Your statements are a result of your brainwashing.
YESTERDAY, in HISTORY, women had a great investment in her man, you know why? Because without him she couldnt' survive. Most women couldn't work, they were REQUIRED to stay home and do the house stuff....so without a MAN....she couldn't survive. That's why women fought over MEN yesterday!
TODAY, in the CURRENT....women have just as much fvcking power as men do. Women no longer NEED men to survive...and all these things like feminism movement, "girl power," Beyonce doing Independent Women and shyt...all of that is nothing but women finally saying, "WE HAVE THE POWER NOW BYTCHES!!"
So guess what? Since they have power now, and no longer NEEEEDD men, guess what that also means? That also means that they can FVCK whoever they want, as MANY TIMES as they want. They DON'T HAVE TO STAY married to a guy IF THEY DON'T LIKE HIM NO MORE....etc. This wasn't the same yesterday....but it's that way today.
So that's why I stated earlier....the man with all the sexual power WILL attract more women than a man without it...why? Because TODAY....women are no longer the housemade, the housewife...they are no longer the charity case. They are the fvcking customers at Arbys, and they can choose anything off that god damn menu that they choose....and it's the men with all the sexual power that get chosen FIRST.
Yesterday with women...it was
1. A Great Relationship First. Guy can take care of me.
2. A Great Sexual Partner Second. Sometimes this wasn't even a fvcking requirement.
TODAY with women...it's like this:
1. A Great Sexual Partner FIRST
2. A Great Relationship SECOND...and today, most times, this isn't even a fvcking requirement. That's why you see girls fvcking low life guys that aren't releationship material worth a damn. Because it's not a requirement anymore!
The requirement today....is being a great sexual partner.....giving it to her in her mind, body, and soul....if you can do that and get good at it......you won't EVER need a fvcking Seduction book, a Pook article, or a David Deangelo DVD ever again....you'll write your own damn Seduction book!
"The woman has much greater investement in who she chooses, therefore her selection should be much more weighted with special criteria in meeting these conditions. It is her sexual strategy to retain a guy for child-rearing. A guy's strategy is to blow as many a load into as many gals as possible. Very different strategies. One is long-term and one is short-term."
Again, COME OUT OF THE MATRIX. Your statements are a result of your brainwashing.
YESTERDAY, in HISTORY, women had a great investment in her man, you know why? Because without him she couldnt' survive. Most women couldn't work, they were REQUIRED to stay home and do the house stuff....so without a MAN....she couldn't survive. That's why women fought over MEN yesterday!
TODAY, in the CURRENT....women have just as much fvcking power as men do. Women no longer NEED men to survive...and all these things like feminism movement, "girl power," Beyonce doing Independent Women and shyt...all of that is nothing but women finally saying, "WE HAVE THE POWER NOW BYTCHES!!"
So guess what? Since they have power now, and no longer NEEEEDD men, guess what that also means? That also means that they can FVCK whoever they want, as MANY TIMES as they want. They DON'T HAVE TO STAY married to a guy IF THEY DON'T LIKE HIM NO MORE....etc. This wasn't the same yesterday....but it's that way today.
So that's why I stated earlier....the man with all the sexual power WILL attract more women than a man without it...why? Because TODAY....women are no longer the housemade, the housewife...they are no longer the charity case. They are the fvcking customers at Arbys, and they can choose anything off that god damn menu that they choose....and it's the men with all the sexual power that get chosen FIRST.
Yesterday with women...it was
1. A Great Relationship First. Guy can take care of me.
2. A Great Sexual Partner Second. Sometimes this wasn't even a fvcking requirement.
TODAY with women...it's like this:
1. A Great Sexual Partner FIRST
2. A Great Relationship SECOND...and today, most times, this isn't even a fvcking requirement. That's why you see girls fvcking low life guys that aren't releationship material worth a damn. Because it's not a requirement anymore!
The requirement today....is being a great sexual partner.....giving it to her in her mind, body, and soul....if you can do that and get good at it......you won't EVER need a fvcking Seduction book, a Pook article, or a David Deangelo DVD ever again....you'll write your own damn Seduction book!
So again, I say....when you are in the Matrix, you can't see straight you can't make great judgements.
Everything looks backwards.
YOU perceive that women were in control since the beginning of time....
YOU perceive that women have all the selection power and sexual power....
YOU perceive that you need a site like this to tell you what to say, when to call, how to get a number, what places you should go to date, how to massage her..."OMG I have a date tonight, what do I do??" type of bullshyt...
BECAUSE YOU ARE IN THE FVCKING MATRIX!!!
When you are in the Matrix, the entire fvcking dating scene and women in GENERAL...it all looks like a fvcking Boxing Match, and you're in the ring with someone that if you don't knock out with a tip or technique...you'll lose in the fight.
COME OUT OF THE FVCKING MATRIX!!!
WE have been in control of women since the beginning ot time...and even still today.
WE have the selection power and the sexual power.
Women are standish today and act like idiots today...because they are just finally expressing this new found power that they have.
It's like a kid that finally gets the keys to the car and can finally get out and drive around....it's called fvcking FREEDOM.
Women want to fvck the shty outta you! ALL OF YOU!
But you sit your azz there, in the matrix, with all of these fvcked up and wrong judgements and theories about them.....won't embrace your sexuality, wont' be a sexual person worth a god damn......and then EXPECT her to have sex with you at the end of the night!!
How the FVCK is a girl going to have SEX WITH YOU and LIKE YOU....if you haven't been sexual worth a god damn!!
Look...So Symp boys. Use your god damn head, embrace being a sexual person, love being a sexual person..and let women see this newly improved sexual you.
And stop all this god damn.....theory azz.....bullshyt! You are fvcking up Evolution, you are fvcking up the Freedom that we have in this country....and worse of all you are fvckin up your OWN god damn time you have been given on this earth....
As far as I am concerned, close this god damn site down.....grab your sexuality......and go and enjoy women for fvckin ONCE in your god damn life.
(P.S. If I were a woman, I would be fvckin pissed at Nice guys and AFCS too! I would hate you guys too! You fvck up everything! Here she's sitting here on this fvckin boring azz date with your sorry azz, pvssy is so wet you could bathe a infant in it....and you can't say or do...or BE sexual or anything closse to SEXUAL worth a god damn! Hell no I'm no returning your god damn phone calls! Hell no I'm not going out with you tonight! Hell yeah I'm going to go fvck that totally low life jerk over there.....at least that raggly motafvcka can be half way god damn sexual!!!)
Everything looks backwards.
YOU perceive that women were in control since the beginning of time....
YOU perceive that women have all the selection power and sexual power....
YOU perceive that you need a site like this to tell you what to say, when to call, how to get a number, what places you should go to date, how to massage her..."OMG I have a date tonight, what do I do??" type of bullshyt...
BECAUSE YOU ARE IN THE FVCKING MATRIX!!!
When you are in the Matrix, the entire fvcking dating scene and women in GENERAL...it all looks like a fvcking Boxing Match, and you're in the ring with someone that if you don't knock out with a tip or technique...you'll lose in the fight.
COME OUT OF THE FVCKING MATRIX!!!
WE have been in control of women since the beginning ot time...and even still today.
WE have the selection power and the sexual power.
Women are standish today and act like idiots today...because they are just finally expressing this new found power that they have.
It's like a kid that finally gets the keys to the car and can finally get out and drive around....it's called fvcking FREEDOM.
Women want to fvck the shty outta you! ALL OF YOU!
But you sit your azz there, in the matrix, with all of these fvcked up and wrong judgements and theories about them.....won't embrace your sexuality, wont' be a sexual person worth a god damn......and then EXPECT her to have sex with you at the end of the night!!
How the FVCK is a girl going to have SEX WITH YOU and LIKE YOU....if you haven't been sexual worth a god damn!!
Look...So Symp boys. Use your god damn head, embrace being a sexual person, love being a sexual person..and let women see this newly improved sexual you.
And stop all this god damn.....theory azz.....bullshyt! You are fvcking up Evolution, you are fvcking up the Freedom that we have in this country....and worse of all you are fvckin up your OWN god damn time you have been given on this earth....
As far as I am concerned, close this god damn site down.....grab your sexuality......and go and enjoy women for fvckin ONCE in your god damn life.
(P.S. If I were a woman, I would be fvckin pissed at Nice guys and AFCS too! I would hate you guys too! You fvck up everything! Here she's sitting here on this fvckin boring azz date with your sorry azz, pvssy is so wet you could bathe a infant in it....and you can't say or do...or BE sexual or anything closse to SEXUAL worth a god damn! Hell no I'm no returning your god damn phone calls! Hell no I'm not going out with you tonight! Hell yeah I'm going to go fvck that totally low life jerk over there.....at least that raggly motafvcka can be half way god damn sexual!!!)
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KneghtRyder said:
quit stalking natural women.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
LOL, good post and points John. You are right no doubt, being sexual will get you more sex than not being sexual.
I think it is hard for some guys in knowing how to guage this. Some 'nice' girls will think your a *pig* if you get sexual with them too soon. The 'naughty' girls will get frustrated because you aren't getting *sexual* fast enough!
I guess the answer would then be to decide if she is a nice or naughty girl and seduce according to the context.
Girls are natural-born actresses, many will play very 'innocent' though they are the dirtiest little tramps in the sack. They will play the part. If you are a nice guy, they will play like a *nice* girl. If you are a *bad-boy* then they'll be your *bad-girl*. I guess that's what PDiddy means by his lyrics "I don't want your innocense, i just want you to wonder .."
Many of guys play the part too, if we feel a girl is nice, we act like your proverbial nice guy. If we feel she is *slutty*, then we get sexual (or at least should be sooner than later).
The bottom line is, we all like and want sex. It is just that a women's nature warrants her to have a longing investment in terms of a relationship as her sexual drive is based on how she feels.
Women have sex for emotional reasons, guys have sex for physical reasons.
There were a few girls that liked me yet wouldn't have sex with me on the first date. Why? They said they wanted me to respect them and call again. In their experience, having sex too soon gave up their Trump card and if they really liked the guy, he was no longer around showing interest.
This is why girls latch onto guys they like after having sex with them. Some do it so strongly for fear that they'll lose him based on past experiences. She gave it up too soon and she knows it.
I think it is hard for some guys in knowing how to guage this. Some 'nice' girls will think your a *pig* if you get sexual with them too soon. The 'naughty' girls will get frustrated because you aren't getting *sexual* fast enough!
I guess the answer would then be to decide if she is a nice or naughty girl and seduce according to the context.
Girls are natural-born actresses, many will play very 'innocent' though they are the dirtiest little tramps in the sack. They will play the part. If you are a nice guy, they will play like a *nice* girl. If you are a *bad-boy* then they'll be your *bad-girl*. I guess that's what PDiddy means by his lyrics "I don't want your innocense, i just want you to wonder .."
Many of guys play the part too, if we feel a girl is nice, we act like your proverbial nice guy. If we feel she is *slutty*, then we get sexual (or at least should be sooner than later).
The bottom line is, we all like and want sex. It is just that a women's nature warrants her to have a longing investment in terms of a relationship as her sexual drive is based on how she feels.
Women have sex for emotional reasons, guys have sex for physical reasons.
There were a few girls that liked me yet wouldn't have sex with me on the first date. Why? They said they wanted me to respect them and call again. In their experience, having sex too soon gave up their Trump card and if they really liked the guy, he was no longer around showing interest.
This is why girls latch onto guys they like after having sex with them. Some do it so strongly for fear that they'll lose him based on past experiences. She gave it up too soon and she knows it.
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Good points DJF - There are a lot of atheists on this site so there god is Darwin - so everything must fit his (Darwin) theories - which are fallacies and part of The Matrix!!!
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I agree with LMS on this point, and it is freakin me out.Last Man Standing said:
I've heard many girls complain that guys get to pick, women have to wait to be approached by the guy they like.
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lol, perhaps a bit overstated, but sadly in many cases, very trueJohn-467 said:
tmpgstx
Master Don Juan
Yeah, but they select the guy first with non-verbal cues. Eye contact etc. Girls stare and give off signs for you to approach.
Women don't have to wait at all for a Don Juan
Don Juan's 'get it', while the guy not approaching yet getting the signs does not."Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Hahahahaha...yeah, evolution is all BS, huh?Last Man Standing said:
My god sh*ts all over your incompetent, insecure and sadistic god
Anyway, I agree with the above two points. Having the balls to approach is pretty much the only requirement in getting to pick women, and if they say no they say no, there are a hundred others in your vicinity you could be approaching right now.
Good luck to us all.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
The reason women look hot to us is because during cavemen times we would just take the pick of the crop and have sex with the best of them.
This is still true today. The only problem is that most people are not having sex to procreate anymore.
When a man wants a girl for something serious (ie procreation) he doesn't just take anything he can get. He gets serious with what he is looking for. He makes an educated choice and filters out all the crap women.
Women often try to take anything they can get when they are in their late 30s. The problem is that they are usually hors by that age and are no good for anything less then a fu-ck toy. Even if a man does marry her she won't have many children and natural selection will weed her gene pool out for being so stupid during her early 20s.
This question really isn't about natural selection it is about the natural order of Mankind. Either way you look at it women never make choices as to the direction of the human race.
Women either have children or they don't If they don't then they get filtered out and so do the men who only go after women for sex and not for procreation.
Only the man who is focused on the natural order of Man truely changes the future of Mankind. He passes on his genes and teaches his children to do the same.
This is still true today. The only problem is that most people are not having sex to procreate anymore.
When a man wants a girl for something serious (ie procreation) he doesn't just take anything he can get. He gets serious with what he is looking for. He makes an educated choice and filters out all the crap women.
Women often try to take anything they can get when they are in their late 30s. The problem is that they are usually hors by that age and are no good for anything less then a fu-ck toy. Even if a man does marry her she won't have many children and natural selection will weed her gene pool out for being so stupid during her early 20s.
This question really isn't about natural selection it is about the natural order of Mankind. Either way you look at it women never make choices as to the direction of the human race.
Women either have children or they don't If they don't then they get filtered out and so do the men who only go after women for sex and not for procreation.
Only the man who is focused on the natural order of Man truely changes the future of Mankind. He passes on his genes and teaches his children to do the same.
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Not really, once she's onto me and realises I'm the best she's going to get and the ankles lock then its all smooth sailing and gravy from there on in, I take over the role of.. what , when , where and why.KneghtRyder said:
Actually I'm as happy as a pig in sh!t with the "natural selection" thing.