Hm... does your nick tell us why...? =)))Master Bates said:Are you sh1ttin me? I don't even give 95% of girls out there a second look.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Hm... does your nick tell us why...? =)))Master Bates said:Are you sh1ttin me? I don't even give 95% of girls out there a second look.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
KneghtRyder said:Does it irk some of you,
that just because she was born with a puzzy that she can basically dictate her destiny or get whatever she wants on a platter w/o working for it..
assuming a girl is reasonably attractive and most are ( in my affluent area at least)
- suppose she was born poor, she can choose for herself to find a RICH guy. And 90 % of the time she'll get it.
- suppose she was born rich, she can choose to go and fcck for looks and get a good loooking guy for herself etc. she'll get that too. or a white guy etc.
they get so much power over selecting guy, but there is no one to say "Your abusing your power" ..they basically have a free reign on whatever they want to do from 18 to 25 as long as they good looking...
Us guys on the other hand basically we do with what we've got and maybe get a girl not as hot as we like but we only get these options to choose from..and we just select ...
"natural selection" it is not...Its FEMALE SELECTION for the MOST part ? they decide which guys will be represented in the next generation based on their own criteria...basically a guy will leave on his genes if he passes their filters of good looking, social skills, confidence, manilness and job status...so if you can't get a girl, your genes are not 'fit' to be passed on is what it is saying. ( pretty big statement for what sosuave.com stands for )
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I agree with LMS on this point, and it is freakin me out.Last Man Standing said:I don't know where you guys got "The girl chooses us" crap - this is a fallacy!! Men are the aggressors and the pursuers of women - WE select the woman who we like - they accept or decline! Women do NOT go around pursuing men - they merely make themselves available to us! If you are getting this from the DJ bible - it should be removed!
lol, perhaps a bit overstated, but sadly in many cases, very trueJohn-467 said:...How the FVCK is a girl going to have SEX WITH YOU and LIKE YOU....if you haven't been sexual worth a god damn!!
...You are fvcking up Evolution, you are fvcking up the Freedom that we have in this country....and worse of all you are fvckin up your OWN god damn time you have been given on this earth....
(P.S. If I were a woman, I would be fvckin pissed at Nice guys and AFCS too! I would hate you guys too! You fvck up everything! Here she's sitting here on this fvckin boring azz date with your sorry azz, pvssy is so wet you could bathe a infant in it....and you can't say or do...or BE sexual or anything closse to SEXUAL worth a god damn! Hell no I'm no returning your god damn phone calls! Hell no I'm not going out with you tonight! Hell yeah I'm going to go fvck that totally low life jerk over there.....at least that raggly motafvcka can be half way god damn sexual!!!)
Yeah, but they select the guy first with non-verbal cues. Eye contact etc. Girls stare and give off signs for you to approach.I agree with LMS on this point, and it is freakin me out.
I've heard many girls complain that guys get to pick, women have to wait to be approached by the guy they like.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hahahahaha...yeah, evolution is all BS, huh?Last Man Standing said:Good points DJF - There are a lot of atheists on this site so there god is Darwin - so everything must fit his (Darwin) theories - which are fallacies and part of The Matrix!!!
Not really, once she's onto me and realises I'm the best she's going to get and the ankles lock then its all smooth sailing and gravy from there on in, I take over the role of.. what , when , where and why.KneghtRyder said:Does it irk some of you,