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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

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National DJ club

Trance

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I am thinking of making a national DJ club. It would work like this:

1) National DJ site, with link to this site. It would have a public forum that would be similar to this one, much about everything that has to do with women, and a private section for the members of the DJ club to post pictures and other private stuff.

2) 2 meetings/month. The club members gather to talk about their week pickups or relationships, and exchange ideas and tips for being more successfull. Of course the DJ members would be recruited by the club founders.

3) Going out. In the private forum, the members can organize excursions, like 3 or 4 going out on a night, with the sole purpose of aproaching girls. This will be just great because with us all there with this purpose, there is no possible flaking, if a guy wants to aproach, he will be "pushed" to aproach by the other guys. There is no complex of being with whoever, we are all there strictly to get girls.


What do you guys think of this initiative, and to the site moderators, you guys aprove the creation of an official DJ club in Portugal?

Ps - for starters, it would only have members from my city, so that we all "work" in the same area and allow the monthly meetings. Latter, it would expand to other cores in other cities.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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amokk23

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Good Idea..

If I get enough replies I will start one in AUSTRALIA , Queensland.

So all you DJ and rAFC's from Australia, I need a role call.

We prob wont need our own national site, just Private Forums off this place..

The more people that respond the better, things like work a lot better in big groups. Ie Bar tabs, free entry etc etc.

I work at a University so promoting this wont be a problem. Just need people to give me some signs of intrests.



Out.
 

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It's a cool idea, but there is quite the problem of logistics.

Most of us live in different time zones, cities, etc. on top of the fact that we all have different schedules.

Then there is the factor of : Do I really WANT to meet with these 'Djs'? You could end up going trying to get help, and end up being more of a teacher among the people there... a small risk, but hey...

Anyway...its still possible.
 

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
It's a cool idea, but there is quite the problem of logistics.

Most of us live in different time zones, cities, etc. on top of the fact that we all have different schedules.

Then there is the factor of : Do I really WANT to meet with these 'Djs'? You could end up going trying to get help, and end up being more of a teacher among the people there... a small risk, but hey...

Anyway...its still possible.
The best way to learn is by teaching. :p

I agree, though. Not to mention, there seems to only be AFC's in Baton Rouge, with very few exceptions.
 

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Originally posted by Trance
Of course the DJ members would be recruited by the club founders.
The initial members would recruit the possible members. Either a friend of one, or a forum poster might get a shot to enter the DJ club. That will mean taking him for one night to see if he has some technique, and the spirit to join the club. If he doesnt, he's out, keep posting on the forum; if he does good, he's in.
 

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Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Re: Re: National DJ club

LOL ,

All are welcome to the Australain devision of the DJ Society.

' Bring us your Frustrated Masses '

Lets get some freakin roll calls goin.




Out.
 

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1. Do you realise the attitude of women to organised pickup by guys? They'll see you as artifical and sleazy. Promoting this at your university is not a good idea. Promoting it at all in the public domain is not a good idea.

2. Do you realise the general mindset of guys towards 'learning' systemised pickup in such a way, and how they react to it? Most likely it will be disdain, mockery, disbelief etc. The only ppl you're going to recruit are WBAFCs desperate to get laid who think that joining the "DJ Club" is going to give them some kind of magic pill that attracts girls to them like magnets. You aren't going to get the kind of person you want, who is going to want to learn and go out and put in the hard yards sargeing and getting rejected and getting better with each day.
 

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wolfie, wtf? Promoting this at university lol? Who the **** would be dumb enough to do that kind of ****?? Im talking about recruiting ppl, not by any adds, but because he is a friend of one of the dj's, and might be interesting to join the club.
Since ppl who would join are already known from some members of the group, no disdain or that kinda stuff you say. All will work perfectly well.
 

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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

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She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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