"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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National DJ club

Trance

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I am thinking of making a national DJ club. It would work like this:

1) National DJ site, with link to this site. It would have a public forum that would be similar to this one, much about everything that has to do with women, and a private section for the members of the DJ club to post pictures and other private stuff.

2) 2 meetings/month. The club members gather to talk about their week pickups or relationships, and exchange ideas and tips for being more successfull. Of course the DJ members would be recruited by the club founders.

3) Going out. In the private forum, the members can organize excursions, like 3 or 4 going out on a night, with the sole purpose of aproaching girls. This will be just great because with us all there with this purpose, there is no possible flaking, if a guy wants to aproach, he will be "pushed" to aproach by the other guys. There is no complex of being with whoever, we are all there strictly to get girls.


What do you guys think of this initiative, and to the site moderators, you guys aprove the creation of an official DJ club in Portugal?

Ps - for starters, it would only have members from my city, so that we all "work" in the same area and allow the monthly meetings. Latter, it would expand to other cores in other cities.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Good Idea..

If I get enough replies I will start one in AUSTRALIA , Queensland.

So all you DJ and rAFC's from Australia, I need a role call.

We prob wont need our own national site, just Private Forums off this place..

The more people that respond the better, things like work a lot better in big groups. Ie Bar tabs, free entry etc etc.

I work at a University so promoting this wont be a problem. Just need people to give me some signs of intrests.



Out.
 

So pimp its scary

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It's a cool idea, but there is quite the problem of logistics.

Most of us live in different time zones, cities, etc. on top of the fact that we all have different schedules.

Then there is the factor of : Do I really WANT to meet with these 'Djs'? You could end up going trying to get help, and end up being more of a teacher among the people there... a small risk, but hey...

Anyway...its still possible.
 

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
It's a cool idea, but there is quite the problem of logistics.

Most of us live in different time zones, cities, etc. on top of the fact that we all have different schedules.

Then there is the factor of : Do I really WANT to meet with these 'Djs'? You could end up going trying to get help, and end up being more of a teacher among the people there... a small risk, but hey...

Anyway...its still possible.
The best way to learn is by teaching. :p

I agree, though. Not to mention, there seems to only be AFC's in Baton Rouge, with very few exceptions.
 

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Originally posted by Trance
Of course the DJ members would be recruited by the club founders.
The initial members would recruit the possible members. Either a friend of one, or a forum poster might get a shot to enter the DJ club. That will mean taking him for one night to see if he has some technique, and the spirit to join the club. If he doesnt, he's out, keep posting on the forum; if he does good, he's in.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Re: Re: National DJ club

LOL ,

All are welcome to the Australain devision of the DJ Society.

' Bring us your Frustrated Masses '

Lets get some freakin roll calls goin.




Out.
 

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1. Do you realise the attitude of women to organised pickup by guys? They'll see you as artifical and sleazy. Promoting this at your university is not a good idea. Promoting it at all in the public domain is not a good idea.

2. Do you realise the general mindset of guys towards 'learning' systemised pickup in such a way, and how they react to it? Most likely it will be disdain, mockery, disbelief etc. The only ppl you're going to recruit are WBAFCs desperate to get laid who think that joining the "DJ Club" is going to give them some kind of magic pill that attracts girls to them like magnets. You aren't going to get the kind of person you want, who is going to want to learn and go out and put in the hard yards sargeing and getting rejected and getting better with each day.
 

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wolfie, wtf? Promoting this at university lol? Who the **** would be dumb enough to do that kind of ****?? Im talking about recruiting ppl, not by any adds, but because he is a friend of one of the dj's, and might be interesting to join the club.
Since ppl who would join are already known from some members of the group, no disdain or that kinda stuff you say. All will work perfectly well.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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