stuka1939
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I really feel bad for this girls family as they will never know who killed their daughter.
Justice will be served in the next life.
Justice will be served in the next life.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
however, it wasn't their male dna on her toothbrush, that she left at her hotel room.Ken785 said:of course we know who killed her...its was that van der sloot guy and those 2 other guys who aren't trying to say anything because they are innocent until proven guilty...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Vladimir Horowitz said:They do know who killed their daughter. The Aruban government is just too incompetent to prove it. Joran van Der Sloot, Deepak Kalpoe, and Satish Kalpoe left Carlos & Charlie's with Natalee to "party". Natalee snorted too much coke and couldn't handle it, so she overdosed. After she died, Deepak and Satish freaked out, so Joran talked them both into dumping her body into the ocean.
unless you personally know by witnessing it, then you know nothing either.Vladimir Horowitz said:They do know who killed their daughter. The Aruban government is just too incompetent to prove it. Joran van Der Sloot, Deepak Kalpoe, and Satish Kalpoe left Carlos & Charlie's with Natalee to "party". Natalee snorted too much coke and couldn't handle it, so she overdosed. After she died, Deepak and Satish freaked out, so Joran talked them both into dumping her body into the ocean.
May I ask how?
according to wikipedia, jug twitty botched it from the start.Vladimir Horowitz said:The Aruban government IS incompetent. They severely botched the investigation from the beginning.
in fact, in aruba, the police are not supposed to leak info to the press, like the twittys did.
your right, it can't be changed now.Vladimir Horowitz said:Can't change that now.
Mr. Wolf said:Dumping her body into the ocean instead of street, or emergency room?? Come on! People don't do that, even when they are high on cocaine.
Mr. Wolf said:But you never snorted, you wouldn't know.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i wasn't implying that you said that, i was making a point that the twittys can talk how horrible aruba is, but fail to admit when they have done something to leak their own case, and give the news info that was not supposed to be released yet. so if someone wanted to cover tracks, everyone knew in advanced time due to the leaks.Vladimir Horowitz said:By the way, Penkitten. You quoted me as saying "in fact, in aruba, the police are not supposed to leak info to the press, like the twittys did." I never said that. Not sure where you got that line from.
Vladimir Horowitz said:I think Mr. Wolf might be too busy frolicking in the poppies in the Land of Oz to listen to the truth.
Funny how you argue just like Deus ex Pianoforte did. But you couldn't be him considering he was shamefully banned for flaming. :nono:Vladimir Horowitz said:Hey, don't hate the messenger. The crucial difference between my story and yours is that mine is backed up by the FBI and the Aruban government. What, you think I would just make that up?This information has already been released.
Strike a nerve, much? Calm thyself. The Aruban government IS incompetent. They severely botched the investigation from the beginning. The police chief has admitted this. This is nothing new.
As far as the tourism situation goes, I have no problem going to Aruba. I have no problem with my DAUGHTER going to Aruba. Would I send her to any foreign country that allows minors to drink and use drugs at the local dive bar without a proper 24/7 chaperone? You must be joking.
Vladimir Horowitz said:Well, for one she was most likely drunk and on copious amounts of cocaine.
She was also very hot for Joran at the time and didn't really exercise the best judgment.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.