“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Nasty e-mail
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Panda 2000
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GEE, WHAT A COINKYDINK! You start becoming an "a-hole" player and all of a sudden, she got the hots for you! As opposed to before, when you were just a sweet, nice guy - and she could care less.afc_recovering said:
She wrote that whiny email out of SELFISHNESS. She felt like you were moving up, and leaving her behind. In other words, your value went up in her eyes as you started fvcking girls of higher value in her eyes (popularity-by-association). Anyhow, as you can see, all her words were BS as her ACTIONS clearly show that she is only now MORE attracted to you than ever!
Which is why she still wanted to fvck you again recently.
So, let me tell you, when you've technically done nothing "wrong" and a girl calls you an a-hole, jerk, etc - that is a GOOD compliment and you are well on your way! That is one corner that you have now turned in your journey. Congrats! :cheer:
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Kings_royalty
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Good for you bro, love it!!
afc_recovering
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Well since you won't let me get all my thoughts out while talking to you in person, I guess I'll have to resort to writing on here. Again, I appologize for the e-mail, it was dumb. I guess I was just trying to tell you that I feel like you've been ditching your real friends to hang out with the jocks and other popular kids. The truth is I miss hanging out with you and I guess the e-mail was my way of telling you that. It's great that you're getting the popularity now because you deserve it, I just don't like how you've seemingly left your old friends behind. I'd really love to put all of this behind us and go back to hanging out, because I love the time we spend together. Call me at work if you want to talk.
Luv You,
Sarah
Ok guys so she sent me this and I've been contemplating whether I should keep her as a fvck buddy or not because she has been a major ****block lately and I don't know if it's worth keeping her around. What do you think?
Bloke
Senior Don Juan
Give her a break, now she knows not to f*ck around with you.
Don't be an angry person.
Translation: You are not the wuss that I used to be able to manipulate and control to my liking. Please revert back to your old ways so you can kiss my ass again like the good old days.afc_recovering said:
Be friendly towards her when you see her around but don't spend time with her. Don't have a serious heart to heart talk like she wants to because it will lead you nowhere. If she is really pushing for it, tell her that if she really wants to make up to you she should take you out for some food and drinks. Then its your move....afc_recovering said:
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
I'm proud of you, going from being an AFC and ONEits to the DJ you have become is indeed truly amazing. I would suggest that you keep spinning those other plates and Sarah as well.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Perfectly summed up!wayword said:You start becoming an "a-hole" player and all of a sudden, she got the hots for you! As opposed to before, when you were just a sweet, nice guy - and she could care less.
My only concern about this is that you're telling women you love them to get them to have sex with you. That is low my friend. It is going to cause them a lot of pain and psychologically damage them, which they don't deserve. It's this kind of thing that creates feminist b1tches.
Other than that, congratulations on embracing your manhood and developing some sex appeal!