cause she sure can't hit a 3 metal :crazy:
http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/golf-...a-mansion-continues-grow-230252569--golf.html
http://sports.yahoo.com/blogs/golf-...a-mansion-continues-grow-230252569--golf.html
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bokanovsky said:This is one of those instances where I don't feel particularly bad for the guy. Tiger Woods is a rich black athlete who wanted to have a pretty blonde wife. Obviously, she married him because of his money and status, not because she loved or even liked him. He should have known that.
Right...That chick is a gold digger of the highest order. She befriended the wife of a Swedish professional golfer and even became their kid's nanny and moved to the U.S. for the sole purpose of getting an in into the world of professional golf and finding a rich hubby. I mean, when was the last time you've heard of an attractive young woman giving up her modeling career to become a nanny??Malice said:Maybe she did love him but got pissed when he banged the female army. The dumbass should not have gotten married. Don't cheat on your wife, she will get pissed and screw you.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Bokanovsky said:Right...That chick is a gold digger of the highest order. She befriended the wife of a Swedish professional golfer and even became their kid's nanny and moved to the U.S. for the sole purpose of getting an in into the world of professional golf and finding a rich hubby. I mean, when was the last time you've heard of an attractive young woman giving up her modeling career to become a nanny??