"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Naivité

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Okay guys. I'm dating this girl who's a little naive. When I say naive, I mean she was one of the dorks in middle school whose parents wouldn't sign the release for sex ed. Obviously, being the man I am, this presents certain problems ;) . Any suggestions? And I mean DECENT suggestions. Because other than this little problem she's really pretty cool. So none of that "move on" BS. thanks.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DJ_Matthew

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I have high standards and I could never date a girl who's naive or stupid.

It's all about your standards. If you don't mind the girl being a bit naive, then be my guess and date her.
 

T-Roy

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Why give her the talk when you can show her the example? Ease her into it and if she is comfortable with it go for it.
 
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