"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Okay guys. I'm dating this girl who's a little naive. When I say naive, I mean she was one of the dorks in middle school whose parents wouldn't sign the release for sex ed. Obviously, being the man I am, this presents certain problems ;) . Any suggestions? And I mean DECENT suggestions. Because other than this little problem she's really pretty cool. So none of that "move on" BS. thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I have high standards and I could never date a girl who's naive or stupid.

It's all about your standards. If you don't mind the girl being a bit naive, then be my guess and date her.
 
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Why give her the talk when you can show her the example? Ease her into it and if she is comfortable with it go for it.
 
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