"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Okay guys. I'm dating this girl who's a little naive. When I say naive, I mean she was one of the dorks in middle school whose parents wouldn't sign the release for sex ed. Obviously, being the man I am, this presents certain problems ;) . Any suggestions? And I mean DECENT suggestions. Because other than this little problem she's really pretty cool. So none of that "move on" BS. thanks.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I have high standards and I could never date a girl who's naive or stupid.

It's all about your standards. If you don't mind the girl being a bit naive, then be my guess and date her.
 
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Why give her the talk when you can show her the example? Ease her into it and if she is comfortable with it go for it.
 
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