"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The TV show Mythbusters had its series finale the other day. Here are a couple of myths from the series that might be relevant to this forum.

This one is about whether money or a better occupation makes a man more attractive. I've seen similar experiments in other places with the same results:


And this one is a little more fun, about whether or not waitresses with larger breasts get bigger tips. I've always thought Kari Byron was smoking hot:

 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No news there.... I live it. You can see their pupils dilate when they find out what I do.... I don't lead with it, but eventually it comes up
 

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Interesting. Women gave 40% more to the big boobed waitress. A higher increase than the men.

Thoughts?
 

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I had a b-cup gf once. She said something one time about when a woman with big t!ts walks into the room she feels like....and then she made a bowing 'I am not worthy' sort of gesture...call it submission.
 

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Interesting. Women gave 40% more to the big boobed waitress. A higher increase than the men.

Thoughts?
That puzzled me also. It could be a respect thing, like Bible Belt says.
Or maybe in the women's eyes, the girl looks fatter with big boobs, so they feel more comfortable with her.
Or maybe they think she's had children so she needs the money?
Maybe they are sympathetic toward her for having to lug those things around all day?
Not sure what the answer is.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maybe they feel sorry for her because she has to endure so many "creeps" (average men) looking at her... :rolleyes:
 

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Lol at the "creeps". But it seems to me women are jealous of other women who have larger breasts. But there can be different things going on at once.

Maybe breasts remind them of their mothers?
 
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