"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The TV show Mythbusters had its series finale the other day. Here are a couple of myths from the series that might be relevant to this forum.

This one is about whether money or a better occupation makes a man more attractive. I've seen similar experiments in other places with the same results:


And this one is a little more fun, about whether or not waitresses with larger breasts get bigger tips. I've always thought Kari Byron was smoking hot:

 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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No news there.... I live it. You can see their pupils dilate when they find out what I do.... I don't lead with it, but eventually it comes up
 

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Interesting. Women gave 40% more to the big boobed waitress. A higher increase than the men.

Thoughts?
 

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I had a b-cup gf once. She said something one time about when a woman with big t!ts walks into the room she feels like....and then she made a bowing 'I am not worthy' sort of gesture...call it submission.
 

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Interesting. Women gave 40% more to the big boobed waitress. A higher increase than the men.

Thoughts?
That puzzled me also. It could be a respect thing, like Bible Belt says.
Or maybe in the women's eyes, the girl looks fatter with big boobs, so they feel more comfortable with her.
Or maybe they think she's had children so she needs the money?
Maybe they are sympathetic toward her for having to lug those things around all day?
Not sure what the answer is.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Maybe they feel sorry for her because she has to endure so many "creeps" (average men) looking at her... :rolleyes:
 

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Lol at the "creeps". But it seems to me women are jealous of other women who have larger breasts. But there can be different things going on at once.

Maybe breasts remind them of their mothers?
 
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