"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mythbusters

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The TV show Mythbusters had its series finale the other day. Here are a couple of myths from the series that might be relevant to this forum.

This one is about whether money or a better occupation makes a man more attractive. I've seen similar experiments in other places with the same results:


And this one is a little more fun, about whether or not waitresses with larger breasts get bigger tips. I've always thought Kari Byron was smoking hot:

 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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No news there.... I live it. You can see their pupils dilate when they find out what I do.... I don't lead with it, but eventually it comes up
 

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Interesting. Women gave 40% more to the big boobed waitress. A higher increase than the men.

Thoughts?
 

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I had a b-cup gf once. She said something one time about when a woman with big t!ts walks into the room she feels like....and then she made a bowing 'I am not worthy' sort of gesture...call it submission.
 

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Interesting. Women gave 40% more to the big boobed waitress. A higher increase than the men.

Thoughts?
That puzzled me also. It could be a respect thing, like Bible Belt says.
Or maybe in the women's eyes, the girl looks fatter with big boobs, so they feel more comfortable with her.
Or maybe they think she's had children so she needs the money?
Maybe they are sympathetic toward her for having to lug those things around all day?
Not sure what the answer is.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Maybe they feel sorry for her because she has to endure so many "creeps" (average men) looking at her... :rolleyes:
 

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Lol at the "creeps". But it seems to me women are jealous of other women who have larger breasts. But there can be different things going on at once.

Maybe breasts remind them of their mothers?
 
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