"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Mystery's Venusian Art Handbook or Juggler's How to Meet and Connect with Women?

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Which one would suit me better? Im thinking of mostly daygaming since I now live in little rock AR and am under age to go to clubs yet, but pretty soon I will be 18 and may want to leave the town and go back to miami or some big city. mysteries book will probably be more powerful for the city nightlife scene but I also want something I can use when doing groceries or waiting in line somewhere, so I dunno which one should I get first? Mysterys book or jugglers?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I read Juggler's book and thought it was pure gold. Juggler seems to have a genuine approach that I like. I haven't read Mystery's book, but I do also recommend Doc Love's book, "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene, and "The Game" by Neil Strauss.
 
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Yeah, was Juggler the one about "having that strong belief."

Lol, you can also read my thread in the Tips section called, "I have it!"

Guys when can we have some good discussions, shouldn't this "women" topic be over by now, everybody's straight now right?
 

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Juggler preaches trying to make a deep connection with every woman you approach while also having fun with the situation. I think some guys get too caught up with canned material, and they take approaching women too seriously.
 
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