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Senior Don Juan
Both Joes are doing very well. They always show the fat one doing great and then just don't mention him after that...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Hahaha, that was really funny!Ever onward said:That was cold how Pradeep shut Fred out of that set!
I LOVE IT!!! :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I believe Joe picked him because he felt sorry for Pradeep... Mystery made the smart choice of eliminating Fred though.. I mean, I don't see Fred as PUA master material...Thai Foon said:i think that the guy shouldnt have chosen pradeep as a wingman, and just let his ass get eliminated. he ****ing ****blocked that older guy (the older guy shoulda done something about it though, so i dont really feel too bad for him)
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
That is probably the reward challenge. The girl will most likely pick whichever was the best kisser by number. "Number 3 was the best." Then whoever kissed her third wins.DJDamage said:the preview for the next show looks terrible. They are going to blind fold a couple of women and those chumps will have to practice kissing them!? lol why the blindfold? so the women won't be repulsed by those guys??
I would of thumped him right in the back of his head and told him "Move along, the adults are talking here."Deus ex Pianoforte said:That was awesome when Pradeep totally sat down right in front of Fred and locked him out of the set, though. Classic. I mean, what do you DO in that situation?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.