"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mystery's Seminars. Go or No?

Kev07

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Make some friends who are good, learn from them

or force yourself to give 5 bucks to a random stranger everytime u fail to approach, i'm sure by the time you lose 2 grand you will have made big progress (if you even lose that much)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Kev07 said:
Make some friends who are good, learn from them

or force yourself to give 5 bucks to a random stranger everytime u fail to approach, i'm sure by the time you lose 2 grand you will have made big progress (if you even lose that much)

Wow Kev, I like that idea, thanks.
 

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Thats actually mysterys idea... you give your wing 200 dollars in 20s or something and every approach you make your wing will give you back 20 dollars. its good motivation to approach. Mysterys workshops are EXCELLENT if you have hard understanding that the material given actually works. PLus mysterys method will blow your mind, i happen to enjoy it. I would look into a seminar and in field workshop if you can afford it easily.
 

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$2000?? WTF? that is crazy.

http://youtube.com/watch?v=bbZqdvg5u4Y
some of my home girls :) i always tell ukraine girls about watching such shows. it makes them feel this small.that first dude is cooler than any of us will ever be. they don't make them like that anymore in america. the old broad in the footage (27) is soooo screwed in ukraine. i don't think the apartment i use would hire her as a maid :confused: . i feel bad for her. ukraine was created so that i could be a somebody.

i don't know why, but the whole piece makes me hungry for some pelmeni. yum...pelmeni and a dab of sour cream. yummy. i know the perfect place in odessa for just such a treat.
 

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btw...

if you want "decent" advice on how that $2000 could be better spent just let the sparkster know. no teachers, no tour buses filled with smelly dangerous looking men, and lots of clean honest fun in a fantastic place.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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