Mystery

[Guillain]

How do you avoid losing mystery in high school? I mean I see the girls everyday, I have a great fun with them everyday, but I think I'm definitly falling in the LJBF zone because I see them too much. Girls are having a great time with me all the time, and I'm mostly the Alpha male in every situation, but it looks like they lose interest after a while, because this week I was showered with attention, but today seemed like they were less interested. I was thinking of taking a full week off DJing. But what is a great way to keep them interested?

And how important is mystery?

 

[downfallofdisbelief]

well, i try to keep closer to my guy friends when it comes to hangin out and shizzle during school cause that should be where your priorites should be anyways but if you got classes w/ these chicks, you prolly'll have to not get too close to any of them, just always be busy and dont really tell much about yourself, just stories about your experiences or just plain flirting and ballbustin, no need to express info. Thats waht dates are for, getting to know, school is for education and flirting. heh.

 

[Sax God]

You can easily keep you mystery by slightly adjusting some of you mannerisms. Do little things that keep everyone guessing. Then, just when they think they're beginning to understand you, hit them with something else.

For instance, you can retain mystery by, when making eye contact with someone, having a sly "I know something you don't know" smirk on your face. OR, you can even go so far as to make little remarks about things people say or do, such as when someone says something even slightly revealing you can say "hmm..." or "interesting..." or something else that might catch them off-guard.

Just always keep them wondering and guessing, but never let them know what you're really thinking...

 

[DJ Alejandro]

try to show a diffrent side of yourself.

lessen the talkin and more of the action. be unpredictable.

maybe you can even surprise people that you know about some stuff they dont really expect u to know.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

try to show a diffrent side of yourself.

lessen the talkin and more of the action. be unpredictable.

maybe you can even surprise people that you know about some stuff they dont really expect u to know.

but seriously, just in case, dont share about yourself too much. made that mistake more than a few times. =)

 

[jonny football hero]

Try something like, talking alot on day. Then shutting up the next. Not being around all the time.