Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Ah! I meant only in the context of getting #s. Bot of course you are right. That is the ultimate skillz!Originally posted by The_Shezzler
Nah...having the girl ask to fvck you is the ultimate skill hehe
Good Luck
Sarge On...
Yea, it is rare. The closest experience I got was when I just have a good conversation with this girl. And I said something like "It would be nice to do all those things (outdoor stuff), wish I had a friend like you to do it with." Then she suddenly said, "Well, then you should have my phone number... " It took me by suprised, she offer her phone number to me. I didn't go further with this because she is married. Although it could very well be a platonic frienship hangout type thing, but I didn't want to play with fire.Originally posted by dyce
this is rare for me but its happened a few times b4
sometimes u'd be talking about where u go to skool or wateva and shes like "hey i pass by there sometimes. hav u got a cell phone? i'll give u a ring weneva im in ur area"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Yup. Works well in noisy environments also.Originally posted by locarius
I have had success just handing my cell to a girl and saying 'put your number in here'.
Good line. I will try this out too.Originally posted by locarius
If he is asking how to get her to offer her number, I think Mystery/Style's line is something like:
"How can we continue this conversation at a later date?"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.