"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mystery Method

MVPlaya

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I've disappeared from SoSuave / FS for almost a year, posting here very rarely, and I want to try out new techniques, especially Mystery's stuff. I need someone to give me a list of Mystery's finest work, some links & stuff. I already downloaded his archive off FS.com.

What I want is:

- Explanation of Neg Theory
- Anatomy of Group Theory
- Anatomy of the Pick Up
- Various Routines
- Various Openers

Basically, everything there is to Mystery Method. I'm reading through his archive's but its all just him screaming at Jimbo or some other dude. I need his good stuff, if anyone has a link, or, even better, a Mystery Bible, that would be awesome.

-MV
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Bradshaw

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I'll get you started. This is all the available stuff of Mystery's site.

Here is Mystery's document on Neg theory:
http://www.mysterymethod.com/downloads/neg_theory.pdf

Here is his latest 'model' of seduction:
http://www.mysterymethod.com/downloads/M3Model.ppt
It has 9 stages. More advanced than his FMAC (find, meet, attract, close) model.

Here is an mp3 of Mystery's to solve 'congruency'.
http://www.mysterymethod.com/downloads/Incongruence.mp3

[Note to mod's. This stuff is available free to everyone on Mysterys website. This isn't copyright infringement.]
 

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Isn't it odd how he asks a woman before he kisses her? His line is "would you like to kiss me?" It seems so afc, but obviously it works for him.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Isn't it odd how he asks a woman before he kisses her? His line is "would you like to kiss me?" It seems so afc, but obviously it works for him.
I wouldn't say that it is afc. It is kind of ballsy to assume that she wants to kiss you. The best part of the Kiss Close is that every contigency is planed for.

For those of you who don't know what Mystery's kiss close technique is I will go over it.
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Response 1
You: "Would you like to kiss me?"
Her: "yes"
(you know what to do)

Response 2
You: "Would you like to kiss me?"
Her: "I don't now"
You: "Well why don't we find out?"
(then move in for a kiss)

Response 3
You: "Would you like to kiss me?"
Her: "No"
You: "Well, I didn't say you could. It just looked like you had something on your mind."
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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Isn't it odd how he asks a woman before he kisses her? His line is "would you like to kiss me?" It seems so afc, but obviously it works for him.
I think you're confusing "Would you like to kiss me," with "Can I kiss you?"
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by 007~JC
AnimalCrackers uses that a lot. It always works.

-007
It's worked for me...
 

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How far do you have to be in for that to work? I've got responses along the lines "You wish" and such
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
How far do you have to be in for that to work? I've got responses along the lines "You wish" and such
You did it too soon. More so, from her reply, the two of you didn't have mutual chemistry. You can't just force a line like that and expect it to work. It's just an opening for someone who is actually into you.
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
How far do you have to be in for that to work? I've got responses along the lines "You wish" and such
There should be a lot of sexual tension :D before you try this. Even if she does say 'You Wish' you can still do response #3. "I didn't say you could. It just looked like you had something on your mind."
 

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Thanks for the info so far. A decent nugget of information is available from the Bristol Lair, various routines and openers are written there.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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