"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MVPlaya

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I've disappeared from SoSuave / FS for almost a year, posting here very rarely, and I want to try out new techniques, especially Mystery's stuff. I need someone to give me a list of Mystery's finest work, some links & stuff. I already downloaded his archive off FS.com.

What I want is:

- Explanation of Neg Theory
- Anatomy of Group Theory
- Anatomy of the Pick Up
- Various Routines
- Various Openers

Basically, everything there is to Mystery Method. I'm reading through his archive's but its all just him screaming at Jimbo or some other dude. I need his good stuff, if anyone has a link, or, even better, a Mystery Bible, that would be awesome.

-MV
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Bradshaw

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I'll get you started. This is all the available stuff of Mystery's site.

Here is Mystery's document on Neg theory:
http://www.mysterymethod.com/downloads/neg_theory.pdf

Here is his latest 'model' of seduction:
http://www.mysterymethod.com/downloads/M3Model.ppt
It has 9 stages. More advanced than his FMAC (find, meet, attract, close) model.

Here is an mp3 of Mystery's to solve 'congruency'.
http://www.mysterymethod.com/downloads/Incongruence.mp3

[Note to mod's. This stuff is available free to everyone on Mysterys website. This isn't copyright infringement.]
 

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Isn't it odd how he asks a woman before he kisses her? His line is "would you like to kiss me?" It seems so afc, but obviously it works for him.
 

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Isn't it odd how he asks a woman before he kisses her? His line is "would you like to kiss me?" It seems so afc, but obviously it works for him.
I wouldn't say that it is afc. It is kind of ballsy to assume that she wants to kiss you. The best part of the Kiss Close is that every contigency is planed for.

For those of you who don't know what Mystery's kiss close technique is I will go over it.
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Response 1
You: "Would you like to kiss me?"
Her: "yes"
(you know what to do)

Response 2
You: "Would you like to kiss me?"
Her: "I don't now"
You: "Well why don't we find out?"
(then move in for a kiss)

Response 3
You: "Would you like to kiss me?"
Her: "No"
You: "Well, I didn't say you could. It just looked like you had something on your mind."
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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Bible_Belt
Isn't it odd how he asks a woman before he kisses her? His line is "would you like to kiss me?" It seems so afc, but obviously it works for him.
I think you're confusing "Would you like to kiss me," with "Can I kiss you?"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by 007~JC
AnimalCrackers uses that a lot. It always works.

-007
It's worked for me...
 

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How far do you have to be in for that to work? I've got responses along the lines "You wish" and such
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
How far do you have to be in for that to work? I've got responses along the lines "You wish" and such
You did it too soon. More so, from her reply, the two of you didn't have mutual chemistry. You can't just force a line like that and expect it to work. It's just an opening for someone who is actually into you.
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
How far do you have to be in for that to work? I've got responses along the lines "You wish" and such
There should be a lot of sexual tension :D before you try this. Even if she does say 'You Wish' you can still do response #3. "I didn't say you could. It just looked like you had something on your mind."
 

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Thanks for the info so far. A decent nugget of information is available from the Bristol Lair, various routines and openers are written there.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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