"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Mystery Method Venusian Arts E-book Question

Dominant

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Does this e-book cover everything in Mystery's live Workshop?

Also, does it cover the same material from the DVDs?

Or would I also need to attend a Workshop and purchase the DVDs in order to get all the information?

Just trying to conserve money.

Thanks to anyone who can answer this.

-Dominant
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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well I think the most important part of the workshops is that they coach you while you are interacting with sets and tell you to make adjustments, and you cant get that from the book. The book breaks down the model to very great detail which is great. The workshops forces you to use the method in field and that is where a lot of people fall short.
 

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Originally posted by psychgrad
well I think the most important part of the workshops is that they coach you while you are interacting with sets and tell you to make adjustments, and you cant get that from the book. The book breaks down the model to very great detail which is great. The workshops forces you to use the method in field and that is where a lot of people fall short.
Yeah I feel you. Thanks for the response.

I just plain and simple want to know if there is material covered in the workshops and DVDs that are not covered in the e-book.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The real issue here is time. If you're going to use MM it is going to require a lot of rehearsal in the field. That means the DVD set would require at least 6 months of going out three times a week.

The MM is actually usable, though. It doesn't feel uncomfortable to me. It actually gave me the tools and confidence to do a lot better not only in the bar scene but also one-on-one. I didn't realize that this was a performance before I read his stuff. I kept trying to apply all kinds of bad logic. I kept talking about right and wrong, nexting, and how no one does that to ME, man of such large EGO.

You can get great results using a lot of different programs. In my opinion, MM and swinggcat's stuff take it to the next level. They are good once you've already gotten to a certain level or if you're not a total loser starting out.

I have both the book and the DVD set. The DVD set doesn't go into as much detail as I'd like sometimes, and it's still fine for gathering enough info to field test. I'm sure it would be great to attend a workshop once I get all I can from the DVD set. I started using his draft book and online posts a few months ago. It does take a lot of time to get this stuff down, though. The good news is I started getting some results right away, even though I know I am not always executig that well.
 
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