"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mystery Method DVDs v.s Deangelo Body Language DVDs

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After reading both Mystery and David's ebook, I found each uniquely informative. Venusian Arts was great as it provided a very comprehensive lowdown on approaching while DYD explained the psyche of being a successful with woman.

I'm now considering getting their video programmes, no reason in particular. I just feel like watching something for once instead of reading.

While I'm into DJing(inner game), I was more inclined towards getting Mystery's because his PUA materials are easily applicable and actually teach you to get girls. David's stuff are overly self-help in nature, which I've already read plenty of through the years.

However, after watching the preview clips on Mystery's site, I found them rather disappointing. I had high expectations since the book was really good, unfortunately it appears to me that it's all there is

As for David, I heard that Advanced is too basic while Mastery focuses alot on the NLP side of things. Which makes me reluctant to part my money on neither. The only two product that interested me was Pick-up in Clubs and Body Language. I finally narrowed down to Body Language because I'm not all that hyped on clubs and videos are ideal for learning body language.


Annihilation Method would have been perfect as I've always seen Strauss as a smart articulated guy and it chronicles both theory and real world practical. Exactly what I'm looking for, a step-by-step guide to watch. It's sold out though, hopefully I'll find it on ebay.

So anyway, if I could only get one set would you guys suggest I go for Mystery's or David's Body Language? Is either any good even?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Go with the venusian artist book first and Body language cds. Mystery is a guess speaker on there and talks alot about kino in it. Overall you will get some good body language advice. Only reason I say don't get the Mystery DVDs now is because I heard it shows different segments not a full break down like the book does.
 
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I already read both Venusian arts and DYD, that's why I'm considering getting a video programme. Anyway cool thanks, I didn't know Mystery's a speaker on Body Language, now I can see them both.

Yeah I found the preview clips of Mystery's DVDs dissapointing.
 
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I'm planning to buy either one of their materials through ebay. Which would you recommend more, david stuff or mystery? They both pretty popular but I don't want to buy both.
 
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Ava Deangelo vs Body Holly DVD?

Yeah I have those. BH's boobs are pretty fake, but all-in-all you can't ask for much more from the 70s.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ROOKIE OF THE YEAR said:
I'm planning to buy either one of their materials through ebay. Which would you recommend more, david stuff or mystery? They both pretty popular but I don't want to buy both.
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I guess it depends on what you're looking for. Mystery's Venusian Arts is more into techniques while David's Double Your Dating is more into mindset. Both their DVD programmes on the other hand seems to focus on mindsets as well. That makes Venusian arts one of the few practical real-world programs and I will recommend it, however some of the content can be gotten free from the PUA forums so that may be a reason not to part with your money.
 
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i think you should check out the body language dvd's first. great stuff! although i think it would have been a more solid program had david d. focused more on voice tone alone
 
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