"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Mystery Is A Creep!!

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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And we should care what those guys think because???
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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its mostly guys saying he is a creep

of COURSE they would think so, Mystery is getting women and they are not
 

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I dont like Mystery. I think similar things to the guys above. also, his profile in "The Game" by Strauss didnt paint a good picture. however, I acknowledge that he is good at what he does, and I'll import anything he says/does that I find useful and that fits in with my style.
 

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Most of the attacks on MM are steeming from ignorance of the system.

Things like "Mystery says to use other people's lines word for word, and to never think of anything original". Actually, in VAH Mystery says explicitly NOT to do this. He recommends creating your own original material, because in the long run that works better. He simply states that being able to deliver other people's material *can be* a useful skill. The entire VAH is mostly about creating your own stories, routines from real life, build an identity, etc. He also states several times that one needs good social skills and natural conversation ability. I don't know how Mystery could have made this any more clear, the people saying this are just completely ignorant of Mystery Method.

If someone doesn't like Mystery Method that's fine. Men have been getting laid for thousands of years without it! OTOH, I would be careful of some of the so called 'gurus' who have financial gain to slam MM. One that comes to mind I recently heard slam MM, when asked what he would talk about with women the only thing he could think of to say was "make fun of all the other guys". Each time the interviewer would ask this q from a different angle, that's all the guy could think of to say. Wow, one thread to talk about! I bet she will think "that's the most interesting guy I've ever met, he makes fun of people for hours!". I think it's wise to avoid anyone overtly negative, with all the egos and money in the PUA community, all the 40 year old virgins are going to start offering workshops to support their hooker habits LOL

There are also a lot of men who are very jealous and bitter. The average man (according to the polls I've seen) sleeps with less than 10 women. LESS THAN 10 WOMEN!!!!!! Can you believe that???? Now, I'm not shy to let people know I've slept with more than 50, and most of those were actually attractive to really hot (yes, I did do a few UGs, but for other reasons like they had one really good attribute --nice ass but poor face, pretty face but stretch marks, etc). So yea, the guy who onlyslept with 10 women, even if all 10 were picture perfect, is probably going to wither admire or hate a guy who has Mystery's level of success. That's totally understanable.
 

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BuildingSomethingBig said:
You don't value their opinions?
Those were more like comments, they didn't give any reasons about why they felt he was a creep. They just sound like a bunch of bitter women who hate tall leggy blonds for no apparent reason, they just sound jealous.

I think the worse thing that people do is to follow the opinions of the masses without any real basis. The life of a lemming isn't all that appealing when you really consider it.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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THE_ADDMAN said:
I dont like Mystery. I think similar things to the guys above. also, his profile in "The Game" by Strauss didnt paint a good picture. however, I acknowledge that he is good at what he does, and I'll import anything he says/does that I find useful and that fits in with my style.
I give Mystery mad props for understanding the psychology of what drives women. You can tell that he puts a lot of time and effort into studying and expounding on how the sexes interact. Now ask me about what I believe drives him personally and my opinion would be a bit different.
 

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There are also a lot of men who are very jealous and bitter. The average man (according to the polls I've seen) sleeps with less than 10 women. LESS THAN 10 WOMEN!!!!!! Can you believe that???? Now, I'm not shy to let people know I've slept with more than 50, and most of those were actually attractive to really hot (yes, I did do a few UGs, but for other reasons like they had one really good attribute --nice ass but poor face, pretty face but stretch marks, etc). So yea, the guy who onlyslept with 10 women, even if all 10 were picture perfect, is probably going to wither admire or hate a guy who has Mystery's level of success. That's totally understanable.
I'm above 10, but nowhere close to 50 and have no problem if Mystery or anyone else has 100's or 1000's of women. What other men have dosen't matter to me, its about what makes me happy... Why be jealous ?? Waste of time

I just find it funny that he's a god to you people, he's just a guy that has sex. How clever do you have to be ?? I'll never understand this, but ehh so goes the world...


-Cod3r
 

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Thousands of women is just a dumb bragging point unless you got them all pregnant and now have several thousand children. Then you are officially a seed-spreading grandmaster gardner!
 
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