"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MystLk

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Anyone have one of these sites? Its a cool place to meet new people..you might already have a friend or two on there...I know everyone on my myspace friend list cept one chick in cali but we just talk over the web all of the others I know from school, cool people. Mine is http://profiles.myspace.com/users/20872711 what is yours?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Julian

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holy **** yeah mystic looks young.

I made a myspace page awhile back but personally i think its lame. probably because there was no fine chicks with a page near me.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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dennis - that is a great profile!!! Id imagine lots of girls msg you?

alberto - youre ****ing beautiful. Im good lookin... but you... how are you NOT getting model-ass every night?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MystLk

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lol yeah yeah yeah I get the "damn you look young" thing all the time...ive been getting it since i was 15 and I always get carded but It actually is working out for the better, highschool girls love my babyface (college may be a different story) but right now Im doing good with the girls and I actually gaining some popularity...im not "average" anymore and I'm damn sure not a lame, those pics are from last year around october...I look way different in person (still young tho) i will post new pictures soon and yes i am 6'3 lol I weigh 155lbs and plz dont tell me to hit the gym because I am happy with the way I am and my life is perfectly fine without the gym.

p.s. my 18th b-day is gonna kick ass i will definatley have pictures from that..if im not to drunk to take em.
 
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