"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Bible_Belt

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Gustav Yavo said:
See where is the fun in sarging, hitting on women, kino and all that other sh!t when your picking up girls of a fvckin computer. Go for the THRILL OF THE HUNT!

Myspace is hunting, too. Since I am done with grad school, myspace is just the easiest way to interact with women. I have gotten my last few GFs from myspace. That's just where the girls are, especially when you live in a rural area. Match.com had about two dozen fat girls - that's it. Yet there are thousands of women on myspace even in a small town. I think in-person approaching skills are important, but I also think myspace is a valid way of meeting girls.

To the OP, your profile is not bad, but it's not the profile that gets you laid so much as it is you being an interesting person and the page reflecting it. Get an interesting hobby. Risk taking behavior is always appealing to women. I like fast cars, motorcycles, and mixed martial arts. All of these hobbies can get you girls. I am into them because I like them, not just for women, but that does not change the fact that chicks still think this stuff is cool, so I might as well use myspace to display this side of me, and enjoy the resulting women who cvm my way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thanks for the advice...

KarmaSutra said:
More external validation to get laid and grab unnecessary attention.

:nono:

This is sad young brother.

There is this h.b. 10 (blonde, big boobs) who I could probably take a picture with. If that is what you mean. Is there any particular way to ask these people?


I talked to this one guy and he said that I should not say anything about myself..what do you guys think about that?
 

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Eklipse said:
did you try setting that new picture as a default, maybe it will replace the old one, because thats the perfect pic you need as your default.
However I did put it in the background...I will try and get more there...girls I hit it off with in the club...
 

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So you dig myspace eh, Black Belt. I dunno ive just never seen it as a way to pick girls up. I live in Montreal so its always been extremely easy to find women at clubs, bars ect. But thats cool, i see your points.
 

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Lol Karma, again, you are MARRIED.
As for us younger guys: desperate times call for desperate measures. That's all.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks again for all your help...

I'll let you know when I add more pictures. Still feel free to comment.
 
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