"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Gustav Yavo said:
See where is the fun in sarging, hitting on women, kino and all that other sh!t when your picking up girls of a fvckin computer. Go for the THRILL OF THE HUNT!

Myspace is hunting, too. Since I am done with grad school, myspace is just the easiest way to interact with women. I have gotten my last few GFs from myspace. That's just where the girls are, especially when you live in a rural area. Match.com had about two dozen fat girls - that's it. Yet there are thousands of women on myspace even in a small town. I think in-person approaching skills are important, but I also think myspace is a valid way of meeting girls.

To the OP, your profile is not bad, but it's not the profile that gets you laid so much as it is you being an interesting person and the page reflecting it. Get an interesting hobby. Risk taking behavior is always appealing to women. I like fast cars, motorcycles, and mixed martial arts. All of these hobbies can get you girls. I am into them because I like them, not just for women, but that does not change the fact that chicks still think this stuff is cool, so I might as well use myspace to display this side of me, and enjoy the resulting women who cvm my way.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks for the advice...

KarmaSutra said:
More external validation to get laid and grab unnecessary attention.

:nono:

This is sad young brother.

There is this h.b. 10 (blonde, big boobs) who I could probably take a picture with. If that is what you mean. Is there any particular way to ask these people?


I talked to this one guy and he said that I should not say anything about myself..what do you guys think about that?
 

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Eklipse said:
did you try setting that new picture as a default, maybe it will replace the old one, because thats the perfect pic you need as your default.
However I did put it in the background...I will try and get more there...girls I hit it off with in the club...
 

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So you dig myspace eh, Black Belt. I dunno ive just never seen it as a way to pick girls up. I live in Montreal so its always been extremely easy to find women at clubs, bars ect. But thats cool, i see your points.
 

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Lol Karma, again, you are MARRIED.
As for us younger guys: desperate times call for desperate measures. That's all.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thanks again for all your help...

I'll let you know when I add more pictures. Still feel free to comment.
 
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