“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thephilosopher9

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To tell you the truth. I hate it. It makes things easy. Wanna tell a girl something. Myspace. No balls involved. Plus it is real easy with the IM and all to talk, continuously. Meaning spilling your guts meaning losing mystery and eventually the girl. Happened to me. Don't do it. Online relationships? C'mon. I remember hearing this, I forgot who said it though: "Real men operate in the real world." Moral: Don't do myspace. For anything, unless fun with friends. Not for girl attraction.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Eugene123

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I c where you coming from. but Myspace isn't always bad. there are some situations where it is actually good.
 

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I agree with you on this one, save for one thing: it's good for "giving her the gift of missing you", as David DeAngelo might say. Leave her a reference to an inside joke. Except for that case, I don't like MySpace or IM for chicks. It takes the excitement out of it, really.
 

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I agree. I'm in college now (we didn't have myspace when I was in high school LOL) and I've noticed that a lot of guys will puss out and ask a girl if she has a myspace / facebook page instead of just sacking up and asking for their phone number. Sometimes something good will come out of myspace / facebook / whatever but if you rely on these too much (happens more than you think!) you might as well just stay home and beat off 8x a day because that's all the action you'll ever get. You can't build a connection with a girl over a keyboard.
 

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Couldnt agree more guys, I thought i was the man attracting all these girls through myspace last year.


Thing is though, myspace and online game usually mess up your chances, because you cant tell when your getting IOI's and stuff.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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sandman6991

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I've gotten my last two dates off Myspace with great girls. Would I rather have avoided using Myspace and lose those interactions?

NO!

Myspace works for some, and doesn't for others.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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It doesn't matter whether it works or not, it just proves to yourself that you should game girls through some virtual box instead of meeting them face to face.

If you say "hey, I use Myspace to get girls" your value goes way way down in the big game, mostly because it's like a handicap for people who aren't confident to do it the right way, the natural way.
 

jesusrules

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thephilosopher9 said:
To tell you the truth. I hate it. It makes things easy. Wanna tell a girl something. Myspace. No balls involved. Plus it is real easy with the IM and all to talk, continuously. Meaning spilling your guts meaning losing mystery and eventually the girl. Happened to me. Don't do it. Online relationships? C'mon. I remember hearing this, I forgot who said it though: "Real men operate in the real world." Moral: Don't do myspace. For anything, unless fun with friends. Not for girl attraction.
I couldnt agree more.


Only do it for fun and with friends like you said.

If you like a chick call her up,dont use the f*cking computer:rockon:
 

War Against Betaism

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At a max I usually only talk to girls I met on myspace only 4 times. Then I ask for her AIM, then number, etc.

I've realized that asking for her AIM on the first time we talk usually kills it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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J-Bone

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look at the attraction forums on the mysterymethod.com page and search the hall of fame posts for heartworks myspace method. its worked with me many many times and ive dated plenty of attractive girls from myspace all the way to intercourse. its just another for of game on a pedestal
 

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Too much time spent staring into a computer screen will make your balls shrink.
 

john paul

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ya completely agree, if you look at your myspace you will see a lot of the most popular guys and girls barely use myspace,im,ect if at all becuase they realise its just a waste of your time and doesnt help you at all when trying to get the hookup with a girl
 

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Maybe I'm just the odd man out but I never used MySpace for game. Okay thats a lie. I do but in a social proof type of way. I don't think I ever actually spit or rather typed game at anyone though.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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