"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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To tell you the truth. I hate it. It makes things easy. Wanna tell a girl something. Myspace. No balls involved. Plus it is real easy with the IM and all to talk, continuously. Meaning spilling your guts meaning losing mystery and eventually the girl. Happened to me. Don't do it. Online relationships? C'mon. I remember hearing this, I forgot who said it though: "Real men operate in the real world." Moral: Don't do myspace. For anything, unless fun with friends. Not for girl attraction.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Eugene123

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I c where you coming from. but Myspace isn't always bad. there are some situations where it is actually good.
 

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I agree with you on this one, save for one thing: it's good for "giving her the gift of missing you", as David DeAngelo might say. Leave her a reference to an inside joke. Except for that case, I don't like MySpace or IM for chicks. It takes the excitement out of it, really.
 

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I agree. I'm in college now (we didn't have myspace when I was in high school LOL) and I've noticed that a lot of guys will puss out and ask a girl if she has a myspace / facebook page instead of just sacking up and asking for their phone number. Sometimes something good will come out of myspace / facebook / whatever but if you rely on these too much (happens more than you think!) you might as well just stay home and beat off 8x a day because that's all the action you'll ever get. You can't build a connection with a girl over a keyboard.
 

phoenix647

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Couldnt agree more guys, I thought i was the man attracting all these girls through myspace last year.


Thing is though, myspace and online game usually mess up your chances, because you cant tell when your getting IOI's and stuff.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sandman6991

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I've gotten my last two dates off Myspace with great girls. Would I rather have avoided using Myspace and lose those interactions?

NO!

Myspace works for some, and doesn't for others.
 

Grand Wizzard Alamar

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It doesn't matter whether it works or not, it just proves to yourself that you should game girls through some virtual box instead of meeting them face to face.

If you say "hey, I use Myspace to get girls" your value goes way way down in the big game, mostly because it's like a handicap for people who aren't confident to do it the right way, the natural way.
 

jesusrules

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thephilosopher9 said:
To tell you the truth. I hate it. It makes things easy. Wanna tell a girl something. Myspace. No balls involved. Plus it is real easy with the IM and all to talk, continuously. Meaning spilling your guts meaning losing mystery and eventually the girl. Happened to me. Don't do it. Online relationships? C'mon. I remember hearing this, I forgot who said it though: "Real men operate in the real world." Moral: Don't do myspace. For anything, unless fun with friends. Not for girl attraction.
I couldnt agree more.


Only do it for fun and with friends like you said.

If you like a chick call her up,dont use the f*cking computer:rockon:
 

War Against Betaism

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At a max I usually only talk to girls I met on myspace only 4 times. Then I ask for her AIM, then number, etc.

I've realized that asking for her AIM on the first time we talk usually kills it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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J-Bone

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look at the attraction forums on the mysterymethod.com page and search the hall of fame posts for heartworks myspace method. its worked with me many many times and ive dated plenty of attractive girls from myspace all the way to intercourse. its just another for of game on a pedestal
 

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Too much time spent staring into a computer screen will make your balls shrink.
 

john paul

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ya completely agree, if you look at your myspace you will see a lot of the most popular guys and girls barely use myspace,im,ect if at all becuase they realise its just a waste of your time and doesnt help you at all when trying to get the hookup with a girl
 

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Maybe I'm just the odd man out but I never used MySpace for game. Okay thats a lie. I do but in a social proof type of way. I don't think I ever actually spit or rather typed game at anyone though.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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