"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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icebox360

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i wanna meet a myspace honey, how can i hook-up with a myspace girl
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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KontrollerX

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Grow your hair long and dress all in black and pretend to be a depressed emo. :yes:
 

killbill

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dude most people on there are fake I wouldnt even mess with it. cause at the end who knows you might be talking to a dude...just go meet some real chicks.
 

ObieJuan

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google 'myspace editor', put together a decent looking page and share a few details about yourself. Take some pics, learn to use myspace angles (if you're not that attractive). Find girls you're interested in, read a few details from their page and send an opening message- most girls' pages are filled to the brim with details, you'll find something. Joke around a little, establish rapport then suggest a place between the two of you to meet. I met a girl on myspace that went to the same gym as me which made it easy- but you get the idea.

Myspace isn't really much different then meeting someone in the real world, you need the same skills...it's a little more difficult without body language and tonality of your voice to convey things but it can be done with similar success. Give it a shot my friend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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