"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ShizamDaMan

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General concensus is that it's a good place to hook up with narcisisstic, unstable girls who seek attention. If you want an LTR with a respectable, morally sound woman then it's not the place. It's like shopping for a car at Avis. You just don't do it, cause you can imagine all the people who have used and abused those vehicles.
 

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ShizamDaMan said:
General concensus is that it's a good place to hook up with narcisisstic, unstable girls who seek attention. If you want an LTR with a respectable, morally sound woman then it's not the place. It's like shopping for a car at Avis. You just don't do it, cause you can imagine all the people who have used and abused those vehicles.
Wow...what an analogy.

I used to have a profile there. I don't know if it's really the way that Shizamdaman makes it out to be, but it does seem that people do it just for the attention.

I didn't feel like using time to keep it updated, so I decided to end it. I may decide to do it again later, but at this point it's highly unlikely.


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I basically have set up Myspace as a resource for p*ssy for when I travel. See I like going to places like Boston or Minnesota but I dont know anyone there except a relative or some sh*t, and Myspace has proven to be really good for meeting up with ppl from my friends' list. I tell em i'm comin up, and if I dont hook up with them at least they will show me around town and we'll have a good time..perfect for that but if you're prospecting Myspace for sarging only or LTRs then you should reconsider...overall, whether to Myspace or not is really not a big deal. If you dont get what u want out of it, so what? Its just a website at the end of the day like SoSuave

http://www.myspace.com/rodrigocoreas

sorry if I dont have a pic at the moment but I havent exactly gotten around to buying a scanner but I've hooked up with one girl from boston, another from new york and hung out with some ppl in a band in Mississipi
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PRMoon

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I use myspace to better my chances of getting into some of my favorite night clubs here in vegas...where I will enevitabely meet more hot chicks. There are alot of promoters, greeters, and host on my space who open guest to their friends every week and you can bring however many people you want.
 

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ShizamDaMan said:
General concensus is that it's a good place to hook up with narcisisstic, unstable girls who seek attention. If you want an LTR with a respectable, morally sound woman then it's not the place. It's like shopping for a car at Avis. You just don't do it, cause you can imagine all the people who have used and abused those vehicles.
I LOL'd. :whistle:
 

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At social functions myspace is brought up as a conversation more often than not...kinda weird.
 

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If you try to meet girls on myspace, you are probably a pervert.

If a woman tries to meet you on myspace, she is either
a) hideous
b) advertising for a porn site
c) a man

Myspace is for friends, if you want a date try personal ads.
 

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Or d) an attention wh0re. I have female friends from real life with myspace acounts who easily fit into this catagory.

But some people do have success with myspace.

Good to see you again MsThang :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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