Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ShizamDaMan

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General concensus is that it's a good place to hook up with narcisisstic, unstable girls who seek attention. If you want an LTR with a respectable, morally sound woman then it's not the place. It's like shopping for a car at Avis. You just don't do it, cause you can imagine all the people who have used and abused those vehicles.
 

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ShizamDaMan said:
General concensus is that it's a good place to hook up with narcisisstic, unstable girls who seek attention. If you want an LTR with a respectable, morally sound woman then it's not the place. It's like shopping for a car at Avis. You just don't do it, cause you can imagine all the people who have used and abused those vehicles.
Wow...what an analogy.

I used to have a profile there. I don't know if it's really the way that Shizamdaman makes it out to be, but it does seem that people do it just for the attention.

I didn't feel like using time to keep it updated, so I decided to end it. I may decide to do it again later, but at this point it's highly unlikely.


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I basically have set up Myspace as a resource for p*ssy for when I travel. See I like going to places like Boston or Minnesota but I dont know anyone there except a relative or some sh*t, and Myspace has proven to be really good for meeting up with ppl from my friends' list. I tell em i'm comin up, and if I dont hook up with them at least they will show me around town and we'll have a good time..perfect for that but if you're prospecting Myspace for sarging only or LTRs then you should reconsider...overall, whether to Myspace or not is really not a big deal. If you dont get what u want out of it, so what? Its just a website at the end of the day like SoSuave

http://www.myspace.com/rodrigocoreas

sorry if I dont have a pic at the moment but I havent exactly gotten around to buying a scanner but I've hooked up with one girl from boston, another from new york and hung out with some ppl in a band in Mississipi
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I use myspace to better my chances of getting into some of my favorite night clubs here in vegas...where I will enevitabely meet more hot chicks. There are alot of promoters, greeters, and host on my space who open guest to their friends every week and you can bring however many people you want.
 

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ShizamDaMan said:
General concensus is that it's a good place to hook up with narcisisstic, unstable girls who seek attention. If you want an LTR with a respectable, morally sound woman then it's not the place. It's like shopping for a car at Avis. You just don't do it, cause you can imagine all the people who have used and abused those vehicles.
I LOL'd. :whistle:
 

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At social functions myspace is brought up as a conversation more often than not...kinda weird.
 

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If you try to meet girls on myspace, you are probably a pervert.

If a woman tries to meet you on myspace, she is either
a) hideous
b) advertising for a porn site
c) a man

Myspace is for friends, if you want a date try personal ads.
 

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Or d) an attention wh0re. I have female friends from real life with myspace acounts who easily fit into this catagory.

But some people do have success with myspace.

Good to see you again MsThang :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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