"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Myspace pimpin
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GaryUranga
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BUT to answer your question, just pick something original off her page and talk about that..it's a waste of time really
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Existential
Don Juan
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
+1234GaryUranga said:
only use myspace if you already know the chick in person or through a friend.
Myspace is helpful if you already met her. You can just be like hey whats your myspace. Then message her to setup a date.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Get an exciting hobby and be an exciting person. Then use myspace to show that side of you and to network with people who share the same interest. Now you have something to talk to new women about and don't seem like another creepy loser trying to use the Internet to get laid. Be different from the AFCs if you want different results.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
qstorm501
Don Juan
In all seriousness though hope this thread below helps im gonna tinker with it when i have the time
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122518&highlight=myspace
JackPrescott
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Disagreed. An interested woman will use any avenue to get you alone with her. Including MySpace, whether 4 miles away, or 400. It's a simple matter of HER interest.GaryUranga said:
qstorm501
Don Juan
JackPrescott said:
I agree you should use all avenues of meeting women including myspace ..for guys who use at computer at work you can sarge online all day..personally for me the internet is a secondary tool but its still is another avenue
Ask yourself this has any other guy ever got laid from myspace? Im sure tens of thousands have..Then ask yourself what do those guys have that i do not?