"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Myspace pimpin
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
GaryUranga
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BUT to answer your question, just pick something original off her page and talk about that..it's a waste of time really
NSUballer
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NSUballer
Senior Don Juan
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Existential
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Paintballguy
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+1234GaryUranga said:
only use myspace if you already know the chick in person or through a friend.
Myspace is helpful if you already met her. You can just be like hey whats your myspace. Then message her to setup a date.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Get an exciting hobby and be an exciting person. Then use myspace to show that side of you and to network with people who share the same interest. Now you have something to talk to new women about and don't seem like another creepy loser trying to use the Internet to get laid. Be different from the AFCs if you want different results.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
qstorm501
Don Juan
In all seriousness though hope this thread below helps im gonna tinker with it when i have the time
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=122518&highlight=myspace
JackPrescott
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Disagreed. An interested woman will use any avenue to get you alone with her. Including MySpace, whether 4 miles away, or 400. It's a simple matter of HER interest.GaryUranga said:
qstorm501
Don Juan
JackPrescott said:
I agree you should use all avenues of meeting women including myspace ..for guys who use at computer at work you can sarge online all day..personally for me the internet is a secondary tool but its still is another avenue
Ask yourself this has any other guy ever got laid from myspace? Im sure tens of thousands have..Then ask yourself what do those guys have that i do not?