"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Myspace: girls trying to set value

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have you ever noticed on myspace profiles how some of these girls who think they're the sh*t set up their profiles so that it in a subliminal way radiates that message? i was just browsing and landed on several "cool/hip girls" myspaces who barely write about themselves, seem to be into all the "hip" music/movies/clothing/lifestyle without being extravagent with expenses and i must say their online persona made me feel a bit intimidated. as i shook it off i pictured these girls in real life and how theyd probably be shy/timid unless they were holding a drink as to loosen them up.

i'm just curious, has anyone else here felt a bit of intimidation from a girl's online profile? almost like they knew EVERYTHING that was "happening" and you should play catch up to get with them. why is this??
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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MySpace.com's full of Paris Hiltons mate
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ha i'm not just talking about their photos/appearance. their simple profiles with little one liners as almost saying "i'm better than this" etc.
 
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Sounds a bit like my profile really. I've just got a funny video, a song i like and a brief list of interests on the side. No 'about me' or anything. I wouldn't have thought it was intimidating though..

You got any examples like you've mentioned?
 
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You got any examples like you've mentioned?
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here's one

About me:
i am the next hurricane.

Who I'd like to meet:
all set.


AND she's single, also has her pics set to private.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah i see what you mean, makes me wonder why they bothered filling it out :S
 
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