"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Myspace: girls trying to set value

cNfny

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have you ever noticed on myspace profiles how some of these girls who think they're the sh*t set up their profiles so that it in a subliminal way radiates that message? i was just browsing and landed on several "cool/hip girls" myspaces who barely write about themselves, seem to be into all the "hip" music/movies/clothing/lifestyle without being extravagent with expenses and i must say their online persona made me feel a bit intimidated. as i shook it off i pictured these girls in real life and how theyd probably be shy/timid unless they were holding a drink as to loosen them up.

i'm just curious, has anyone else here felt a bit of intimidation from a girl's online profile? almost like they knew EVERYTHING that was "happening" and you should play catch up to get with them. why is this??
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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MySpace.com's full of Paris Hiltons mate
ha i'm not just talking about their photos/appearance. their simple profiles with little one liners as almost saying "i'm better than this" etc.
 

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Sounds a bit like my profile really. I've just got a funny video, a song i like and a brief list of interests on the side. No 'about me' or anything. I wouldn't have thought it was intimidating though..

You got any examples like you've mentioned?
 

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You got any examples like you've mentioned?
here's one

About me:
i am the next hurricane.

Who I'd like to meet:
all set.


AND she's single, also has her pics set to private.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah i see what you mean, makes me wonder why they bothered filling it out :S
 
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