"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Myspace Free!

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ChapStick

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I deleted my myspace a long time ago... I really got tired of all the ads and spamming going on over it. Some people really like it for keeping in-touch with others. I on the other hand prefer my cell phone and email...
 

speakeasy

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I would like to delete mine, but the one thing that keeps me on is the music. When I find a band a like, they usually have other similar bands on their page, and they in turn have others with music like theirs. There's so much new music I've found because of myspace. Plus there's bulletins people post tell of interesting events coming up. That's what keeps me on, otherwise I'd be gone. I used to be able to meet a few girls here and there, but that ended some time ago, now they neither contact me nor respond to my messages.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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knglerxt

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I deleted my account. There's just too much spam on there. You get these friend messages from fake profiles, which just happen to always have hot girls in the pictures. Then, when you go to their profile it's some girl wanting you to watch her webcam. You'd have better luck trying to meet women on the street than on MySpace.
 

armadon

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speakeasy said:
I would like to delete mine, but the one thing that keeps me on is the music. When I find a band a like, they usually have other similar bands on their page, and they in turn have others with music like theirs. There's so much new music I've found because of myspace. Plus there's bulletins people post tell of interesting events coming up. That's what keeps me on, otherwise I'd be gone. I used to be able to meet a few girls here and there, but that ended some time ago, now they neither contact me nor respond to my messages.

Yeah I found myself on myspace just for the music after awhile. I wouldn't even respond to messages. i deleted it cause it was pointless after awhile. I was into myspace for awhile and it was addicting. Best thing I ever did was delete it.
 

rrrrr

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knglerxt said:
I deleted my account. There's just too much spam on there. You get these friend messages from fake profiles, which just happen to always have hot girls in the pictures. Then, when you go to their profile it's some girl wanting you to watch her webcam. You'd have better luck trying to meet women on the street than on MySpace.

Exactly. I get them every day. It's pretty much a given that if a hot girl contacts you on the internet, it's a scam. Especially when she says "I think you're cute" even though your profile is blank and you have no pictures on your profile.
 

Play the Game

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Get Facebook, its so much better. I admit i've never attempted to meet a girl through it, but its good for the marketplace and keeping in touch with your REAL friends.
 

lildevil

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Ive never had a myspace its not for me...My friends have told me to get one pleaded i do so...but to me its whack....im sorry men i had to say it...To much fuzz even a lil babie can have one .....and all my ex's are their even worse...

People changing their status back and for...people getting angry why ur not in their to eight or whatever....some guy named tom is the king in your myspace for some reason...

The place wher u meet new friends...lets see a doctor who is a pedofile...little girlz that is so insecure that wants to be in serious relationship...A guy bragging about his gun....people who put their friends picture cuz their uggly ass fvck...

Im happy at sosuave....


That makes me want to go less to myspace..
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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speakeasy

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Myspace is making people so narcissistic. It's like everyone is vying for being the biggest attention *****, guys and girls. Some of these chics literally have 50 photos of themselves taken in the same mirror at different angles. It's really ridiculous. I expect that kind of dumb sh*t from teens, but I'm talking women in their late 20s and 30s who should be worrying about their careers, having a family of their own and what not, instead of attention whoring on myspace.
 

Ever onward

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I have myspace but I think about getting rid of it sometimes.

I HATE the fact that everyone I've ever known can stay in contact with me (by following the chain of people we have in common). Some people I certainly don't want to stay in touch with.

And the whole thing is very high schoolish. Everyone, checking to see who you are friends with are.
 
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