"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Myspace/Facebook IceBreaker..

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Alright so i tried this a couple times and it worked.. I have a picture of me and an ugly friend I wouldn't say ugly but not as attractive as me.. I send the picture to random girls on myspace/facebook asking who looks better 90% of the time if it's a good picture of you they'll say you and then you proceed to say "Oh so you think im sexy too?" and proceed from there..

Have fun guys!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes you are... poor guy that thinks you are a friend.. u suck
 

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lol

It's not "lame," as in the sense it can work....and lead to some interesting things. But, it's not very nice to that friend of yours...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whats the most important thing youre friends? ore breaking the "ice" with a random girl?
 

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MightyMate said:
Maybe it is not his friend, but some random ugly guy he saw and made pic with. Anyways asking who looks better is needy.
Try read the text;) he write me and a ugly friend
 

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MightyMate said:
Maybe it is not his friend, but some random ugly guy he saw and made pic with. Anyways asking who looks better is needy.
Well I dont ask her straight up like that.. I told her i made a bet with a friend that look better than him and he agreed so i let her decide
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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