"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Myspace/Facebook IceBreaker..

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Alright so i tried this a couple times and it worked.. I have a picture of me and an ugly friend I wouldn't say ugly but not as attractive as me.. I send the picture to random girls on myspace/facebook asking who looks better 90% of the time if it's a good picture of you they'll say you and then you proceed to say "Oh so you think im sexy too?" and proceed from there..

Have fun guys!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Yes you are... poor guy that thinks you are a friend.. u suck
 

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lol

It's not "lame," as in the sense it can work....and lead to some interesting things. But, it's not very nice to that friend of yours...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whats the most important thing youre friends? ore breaking the "ice" with a random girl?
 

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MightyMate said:
Maybe it is not his friend, but some random ugly guy he saw and made pic with. Anyways asking who looks better is needy.
Try read the text;) he write me and a ugly friend
 

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MightyMate said:
Maybe it is not his friend, but some random ugly guy he saw and made pic with. Anyways asking who looks better is needy.
Well I dont ask her straight up like that.. I told her i made a bet with a friend that look better than him and he agreed so i let her decide
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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