"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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post a bulletin that says "NEW PICS -- NEED COMMENTS!!!"
 
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crossboss

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Good because

I was trying to email girls and they wern't responding.
 
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asking for comments is just pathetic..if a girl wants to comment, she'll comment

or you can comment on her pictures and sometimes they comment back
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tear Gas said:
asking for comments is just pathetic..if a girl wants to comment, she'll comment

or you can comment on her pictures and sometimes they comment back
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Yo man, you asked a question and you got the right answer. I've seen both guys and girls post bulletins "NEW PIX!! PLEASE COMMENT! - I'll Comment Back".

I've seen REALLY hot girls do this too and the chit works.
 
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Lift weights and post pictures of your muscles.
 
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Nexus Polaris

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Making a "New Pics" bulletin is good, but asking for comments does come off as needy.

I like to do it in a fun and humorous way. Post something like, "New Pics! Go check 'em out, you bastards!"
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Nexus Polaris said:
Making a "New Pics" bulletin is good, but asking for comments does come off as needy.

I like to do it in a fun and humorous way. Post something like, "New Pics! Go check 'em out, you bastards!"
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I do that too, like I just recently posted the new pictures to a dance I just went to recently, and my bulletin title was "who still goes to school dances?" and the topic was "I do haha." People will see that I have a new default picture within the dance and will get the message in their heads that I want them to comment my pics.

Anyways, take the best picture you possibly can for yourself. You'll automatically garner comments if you're looking really good. I look really good in the new pictures I posted up and have attracted the attention of a lot of girls. One of my friend's friend said I was even gorgeous.

Pictures that usually go uncommented are the ones that are taken from trips, dinners, outtings, etc. People usually put up a new album with 30 pictures of a trip they just got back from, and most of the pictures usually aren't commented. I know girls who have like 100 comments each picture get 0 comments on their other albums.
 
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you're doing this to improve your social status?
just comment on girls pics and don't be another fan... say something that shows you put thought into what you were saying... about 10% of the girls will comment back on your pics... so if you comment 40 girls in a day - you most likely will get 4 returning the favor... and i've found once you have 10 or so comments - girls tend to comment without much motivation...
comments on your pics are very important imo because nothing looks lonelier than a guy with a bunch of 0 comment pics...

i'd say i'm between a 6-8 looks wise who takes 5-7 pics... and i've had pics with 30+ comments on them before... so i don't think you have to be that good looking...
 
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Neg-hits

I've been using neg-hits to comment pictures. So far I have gotten one to respond. ****y-Funny, anything else works?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You might aswell be posting: "I need to feel validated by what girls think of how I look" Massive AFC behaviour.
 
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So, be validated by

What I think of myself, not what other think?
 
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Guys who had success with their pics, what pose did u use? My main is me looking down on the viewer with a serious face on. I need to take like five more with various poses, I am thinking of taking a whole body shot when I am dressed in my best clothes.
 
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