"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ThunderMaverick
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:yes:Obsidian said:post a bulletin that says "NEW PICS -- NEED COMMENTS!!!"
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
ER!C L!VE
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Yo man, you asked a question and you got the right answer. I've seen both guys and girls post bulletins "NEW PIX!! PLEASE COMMENT! - I'll Comment Back".Tear Gas said:asking for comments is just pathetic..if a girl wants to comment, she'll comment
or you can comment on her pictures and sometimes they comment back
I've seen REALLY hot girls do this too and the chit works.
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Nexus Polaris
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I like to do it in a fun and humorous way. Post something like, "New Pics! Go check 'em out, you bastards!"
meitenesrigas
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I.A.F.Y.B. said:Lift weights and post pictures of your muscles.
http://home.arcor.de/murdok1/ghey.jpg
Enough said.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
War Against Betaism
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I do that too, like I just recently posted the new pictures to a dance I just went to recently, and my bulletin title was "who still goes to school dances?" and the topic was "I do haha." People will see that I have a new default picture within the dance and will get the message in their heads that I want them to comment my pics.Nexus Polaris said:Making a "New Pics" bulletin is good, but asking for comments does come off as needy.
I like to do it in a fun and humorous way. Post something like, "New Pics! Go check 'em out, you bastards!"
Anyways, take the best picture you possibly can for yourself. You'll automatically garner comments if you're looking really good. I look really good in the new pictures I posted up and have attracted the attention of a lot of girls. One of my friend's friend said I was even gorgeous.
Pictures that usually go uncommented are the ones that are taken from trips, dinners, outtings, etc. People usually put up a new album with 30 pictures of a trip they just got back from, and most of the pictures usually aren't commented. I know girls who have like 100 comments each picture get 0 comments on their other albums.
DonGorgon
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^^^Exactly the internet is all about looks if you dont have good ones stay off.MooseGod said:It's really easy: Be good looking and sit back and wait.
bukowski_merit
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just comment on girls pics and don't be another fan... say something that shows you put thought into what you were saying... about 10% of the girls will comment back on your pics... so if you comment 40 girls in a day - you most likely will get 4 returning the favor... and i've found once you have 10 or so comments - girls tend to comment without much motivation...
comments on your pics are very important imo because nothing looks lonelier than a guy with a bunch of 0 comment pics...
i'd say i'm between a 6-8 looks wise who takes 5-7 pics... and i've had pics with 30+ comments on them before... so i don't think you have to be that good looking...
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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